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hey first post but ive been dating my gf for 3 years now last 3 months ive startd view sites like this and i think i want her to cuckold me and to fukk other guys but im not 100% sure wat should i do? Is there a way to tell before sum guys fukks her and me not like it? Should i keep it a fantasy or jus go for it? PLease Help!!!!!!!!!

I think you should be really careful, I'd have to say an astonishingly large amount of women would be put off by the idea. If she is essentially vanilla when it comes to things like tis, she may not understand where you are coming from or maybe she just starts seeing other guys like it's no big deal and it's not what you expected, you could loose your GF. Now if you dont know whether youd like it, it's not really one of those things you can test out and then decide later, cause the damage could be done already. Only you can decide to move forward or not, but just bear this in mind, be VERY certain that you can live with the consequences whatever they may be.

I agree to n.e.d., be careful...
a swingerclub would be a first step. Other men, which see your gf naked, while you're there...

Wow that's a huge step to take. I have no experience with this at all but from what I think I know about women here's what I think.

Keep in mind I have no idea how kinky the chick is. IMO most women would be shocked stupid if you drop it on her out of no where. I would do some pillow talk after sex and really find out what her fantasies are. You will need to give and take but I wouldnt say anything about other men unless she's very kinky.

The swingers club sounds like a great idea. You should really try to slowly ease her into a 3 some with another guy. If you can pull that off I think you would have your foot in the door a d can start dropping hints.

Not comming during the 3 some and mostly using your mouth and hands each time would be a good start. The tricky part will be getting her into the swingers club or 3 some without scaring her away.

If you know any of her old fuck buddies you could try to get their help. Some women may not like the idea of sex with random people... Yea sounds strange to me aswell.

You may also start with something smaller. Chastity play seems to be a good gateway kink. It will also take some easing into but I think you will have much better luck slowing getting her into chastity and controling your orgasms. This should give both of you alot of time to talk about your sexual fantasies and learn enough about one another to have a remote idea if she's interested.

Hope this helps just remember I do t know the chick. She could be out banging other guys all the time.

Good luck with and wow.

Also keep in mind if that's really where you want this relationship to go. There's really no erasing it afterwards. Sometimes things are better kept as fantasies.

i probly should have told yall a lil bout us we already are pretty kinky. We do T&D, ballbusting, im in chastity rite now as a matter a fact. And she already has had a treesome before we got together and she likes flirt around infront of me to make me jealous. we go to bars and she find sumbody and act like she single and be dancin grinding and touching em and all types of stuff while im watching. Im jus nervous bout taking that next step

I think if your already into all the other kinky stuff you listed off the two of you are already really good at talking with oneanother about what you want right?

It's really going to come down to how open the two of you are with each other and how well you can communicate. I'd talk to her about what if's for a while and try to look inside and make sure it's something each of you want to start.

Then keep talking about it to make sure neither of you start feeling differtenly about it as time goes by. Give it time to settle in before you start doing it.

It's still a huge step they may end up breaking the relationship but the key wil be how well you communicate with eachother and how well you understand eachothers side when and if things get going.

You may start out loving it and then hate it after a while so make sure your open with yourself and with her each step of the way.

Good luck man it sounds like it's goig to be and exciting experience. We would love it if you posted progress updates for us so we could share in the experience and maybe offer ideas or suggestions.