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Hi there, i've been reading the web teases and some of them stated ruining it.. how do i actually do it?

Right as you begin to orgasm, let go of your cock. Don't touch it. Let the cum spew out with no stimulation. It will leave you frustrated and wanting more. *smile*
I'm sure others will have a few more suggestions.

Honey, why don't you use the search option or google and figure it out by yourself. And then write a nice report on how your first ruined orgasm went.

Or even better, make a Video and PM it to me

Definitely a good idea to check on the net as there's a few different ways. Milking is very frustrating, as is the 'let go' method that shell describes. I find it takes a little practice to ruin it properly though, some are more frustrating than others. You'll probably get a little 'relief' but within a short time you'll be back to square one desperate to cum again.

I wrote a tease called 'Heidi ruins you' that would be good practice ;)

Chewit

I just had my ruined orgasm just now. it was kinda messy as i cant hold my dick but i cant feel any pleasure in the orgasm. And now im horny again! thank you so much for helping me now.
ps Mistress Nadine, i do not have a videocam with me on hand therefore i cant send u a video of it. im sorry Mistress.

jasongrant wrote:I just had my ruined orgasm just now. it was kinda messy as i cant hold my dick but i cant feel any pleasure in the orgasm. And now im horny again! thank you so much for helping me now.
ps Mistress Nadine, i do not have a videocam with me on hand therefore i cant send u a video of it. im sorry Mistress.

Congratulations! *big smile* Now you will have all kinds of fun, getting frustrated, time after time, after time! *grin*

Here's a link the provides a list of ruined orgasm techniques. However, they are techniques one would to another person, not to oneself.
http://orgasm-tease-denial.com/ruined-orgasm/

Here's another technique you might want to try
http://cuckold-chastity-belt-stories.co ... asing.html

I did a tease using a variation of this technique
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showflash.php?id=6452

Good Luck

masterstroke wrote:Here's a link the provides a list of ruined orgasm techniques. However, they are techniques one would to another person, not to oneself.
http://orgasm-tease-denial.com/ruined-orgasm/

Here's another technique you might want to try
http://cuckold-chastity-belt-stories.co ... asing.html

I did a tease using a variation of this technique
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showflash.php?id=6452

Good Luck

Loved the first link! *smile* *Blushing*

[/quote] Loved the first link! *smile* *Blushing*[/quote]

It seems the issue of ruined orgasms comes up quite frequently on this site. I have it bookmarked and send it when it is requested.

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Nadine- may I ruin my orgasm and send you a video?

Sorry to bring up an old thread but hit a bit of a problem yesterday. I was doing a tease which wanted ruined orgasms. First one i let go just before the point of no return, relaxed as best i could but it still pulsed out and i went soft within a few seconds, lost all urgency for sex and had to force myself to try again in 15 minutes. Didn't have all the feelings of a full orgasm but certainly more than a ruined one.

2nd one i tried a different method, just as i went over the point i clenched the pc muscle. Absolutely nothing came out which i was happy with, not even precum but again, the pulsing was there (or the feeling of it anyway), went soft straight away and even today i feel too satisfied to do any more teases. Both had exactly the same effects as a full orgasm. Am i doing something wrong? I've gone to Taylors teases and done exactly as mentioned on there but it hasn't helped.

i was wondering for a long time how to exactly ruin an orgasm. i found this thread very helpfull
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=9273
particularly janmb's posts are the only way i can get a "real" ruined orgasm

Thanks Steys, going by Janmbs posts i have been doing this very wrong. I got to the edge and just a little over before stopping. Will give this new way a go with the next ruined tease i try. Out of interest which way of Janmbs do you find works best for you, the fast approach and stopping way before PONR or the 2nd option of creeping the edge closer and closer until you eventually go a little over?

This applies to ruining your own orgasm and controlling your edging but also just in general both men and women should try to strengthen their PC muscles as much as they can. It'll work wonders for all kinds of things, and even make normal orgasms more satisfying.