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Is anyone here into feminine chastity?
I'd like to try that with my wife. We recently started playing on male chastity, but we don't have a femdom or submissive lifestyle, we are only interested in chastity play.
Or do you think a D/s lifestyle is a must for chastity to work?

personaly i find how you aproach chastity depends on weather D/s is essential. for me its not as its more mental regarding the changes i go though.


ultimatly with female chastity i belive the best way is not a total lockup senario but one in which daily release are permited for hygine. when i self lock as a male i do rlease myself to wash properly every few days.

that said female chasity would be very interesting and i would love to hear more if you and the wife do take it up. as its is something that i would love to have the opertunity to play with myself.

okay does chasitity= being locked up?
chastity does not always require being 'caged'
Just avoiding sex, which most couples have learned to live with for years (Sorry could not help a joke)
Most female chastity belts are quite expensive
http://www.stockroom.com/Womens-Chastity-C205.aspx
Here is a pictoral list but it does not link drectly to the sites.
http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/female_gallery.htm
although I am not sure if you wanted a belt for her.

I don't see a need for "dominant' play
as nessisary with chasitity.
denail and chastity just require abstinance from sex or physical stimulation.
I do recomend Mental, emotional stimulation though, to make it more challanging and intimate!
be sure to share Lot's of touches and love, if you are both doing denial
you have to work on keeping your love life strong.
or it will cause problems later, almost garanteed.

SexualChoc wrote: Just avoiding sex, which most couples have learned to live with for years (Sorry could not help a joke)

No joke in my case. My partner withdrew sexual privileges over 20 years ago. One of my main reasons for using sites like this.

SexualChoc wrote:okay does chasitity= being locked up?

Yes, it is! The thrill is greater!

SexualChoc wrote: I don't see a need for "dominant' play
as nessisary with chasitity.
denail and chastity just require abstinance from sex or physical stimulation.
I do recomend Mental, emotional stimulation though, to make it more challanging and intimate!
be sure to share Lot's of touches and love, if you are both doing denial
you have to work on keeping your love life strong.
or it will cause problems later, almost garanteed.

We will alternate periods of denial. She may tease and deny me for a week, then I do it to her.
But thanks for the tips!