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Hello A/all,

I have been recently involved in some denial and i have yet to have an orgasm in 6 days. While i'm feeling insanely horny and my balls feel terribly full, i don't get hard too easily.

This is really strange especially because i've always had no problems getting hard. So, my question for the folks here is:

Is it normal to be soft and horny after (relatively) long periods of denial? Or is this a health concern i should be worried about? Perhaps im being paranoid but i just wanted to be sure..

lotsa love,
sissy kimmy

if you have concerns, you should ask a doctor. People's opinion is good, but you shouldn't rely on it. You don't even need much details. You may just tell the doctor that your girlfriend gone on vacasion and you wanted to wait for her. That'd appear normal, won't make you kinky in the eyes of someone. And at the same time you'll get looked at by a professional, and will have a real medical advice.

Personally I don't think it's normal. I'v gone on "denial" for a month after operation, and I had my erections all the way, quite a bit more than usual, because I was pretty horny all the time by the end. If you have problems, consult a doctor.

Nezhul wrote:if you have concerns, you should ask a doctor. People's opinion is good, but you shouldn't rely on it. You don't even need much details. You may just tell the doctor that your girlfriend gone on vacasion and you wanted to wait for her. That'd appear normal, won't make you kinky in the eyes of someone. And at the same time you'll get looked at by a professional, and will have a real medical advice.

Personally I don't think it's normal. I'v gone on "denial" for a month after operation, and I had my erections all the way, quite a bit more than usual, because I was pretty horny all the time by the end. If you have problems, consult a doctor.

Good call.



................................................. Les

You shouldn't overlook the psychological side here. Performance anxiety's a well- established cause of erectile dysfunction. ED's a pretty common problem, and well worth learning about anyway, because a majority of men experience it at some point.
If you've stressed yourself out- whether by teasing or by anything else, or have been drinking a lot, a hard- on's always going to be more difficult to achieve.
Personally, I find it useful to keep changing the kind of stimulae I choose. I have a low boredom threshold. Usually, a new kind of stimulus will re-energise me.

Is it normal to be soft and horny after (relatively) long periods of denial?

I can only speak from personal experience. I find that after several days of edging and orgasm denial, a law of diminishing returns comes into operation. I have blue balls and I am very horny but I find it "harder" to attain and maintain an erection.

subm_1280 wrote:Hello A/all,

I have been recently involved in some denial and i have yet to have an orgasm in 6 days. While i'm feeling insanely horny and my balls feel terribly full, i don't get hard too easily.

This is really strange especially because i've always had no problems getting hard. So, my question for the folks here is:

Is it normal to be soft and horny after (relatively) long periods of denial? Or is this a health concern i should be worried about? Perhaps im being paranoid but i just wanted to be sure..

lotsa love,
sissy kimmy

Okay a couple of questions
"i don't get hard easily" is this while you are trying to masterbate, or just going about your day? like you say oh I used to get hard on while at work, but now I'm not.
I have found it takes a longer time than 6 days to 'get hard' at random like I do when not in denial.

age is a factor also.

How are you trying to get hard? If you are using the same methods of before
you might just be 'desenistize'

I do agree though if you are truely concerned, consult a doctor
It is possible something medical is going on.

Now are you using a chastity belt? or device?
because it helps a LOT with getting you hard when you do stroke and are in denial
you may want to consider my tempory one if you don't have one.

I agree with asking a doctor rather than going with that a bunch of horny bastards online say.