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Hi all!

Longtime lurker, first time poster.

Thought you might be interested in the little game I've found myself in. I've a partner who is, unfortunately currently living overseas. We'll be together again in six months or so, but in the meantime we've started playing a little dare game to keep things interested while we're apart.

I went first, and challenged her to no orgasms for ten days, but, figuring that would be too easy, and not wanting her to just disengage from her sex driver, she has to edge at least once every night, at least two days of the ten she has to start her day with an edge, and at least once she has to do an extra edge not just outside her house, but not on her own property.

If she achieves it, I'm buying her a rabbit vibe, and if she fails, her punishment is that she has to force herself to six orgasms in two hours. (Experience says too much is about four for her in that sort of time frame)

She's about half way though, and it's getting harder and harder for her, moreso than she thought.. which I was enjoying until she launched her reply. (Oh who am I kidding, I'm still enjoying it)

Now I'm starting today my ten days, but I'm not allowed to touch at all. Additionally, I have to spend ten minutes every day fantasising/writing erotica/watching something sexy, so that I don't disengage (as if!). If I win, I get a naughty picture of her for every day of denial (to be paid at the end), and three naughty "vouchers" to use when she gets back here, contents currently unknown. She couldn't think of a naughty punishment for me on this first round, so if I fail, I must give up caffeine for three days.. and I must admit to being an addict.

Today I spent my ten minutes texting naughty thoughts with her; I figure if we're going to overlap, I may as well tease her too! But I thought you all might be interested to follow our progress.

I'd also appreciate any ideas you might have on what I should dare her to do next, or rewards/punishments I could add to the challenges.

Also, as it's my first post, wanted to thank you all for such an engaging community. I've intended to post for so long, but never really felt I had much to add.

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Okay before i was married I had a girlfriend who would do this
and it drove us both insane.
Both of you get naked lie in bed and talk on the phone
You do a complete sex talk
I'd kiss you here and then there and suck you
and lick you and then plunge...
all without TOUCHING yourself
You have to keep one hand on the phone next to your ear
and the other also on your head to help avoid temptation to stroke
(or do circles on pussy)
See how long you can go talking about it
the first one who stops talking about sex
(because they run out of ideas or get to horney)
should take a mild punishment
Like One swat on the bottom.
then NO touching until the next day for either of you.

You will both go insane with desire to see eachother
You be buying plane tickets faster than you can afford to.

That's a great idea SexualChoc, thank you!

Well, it's day two for me and day five for her. For her part she's surprised at how horny she's getting, and the type of naughty ideas that fly through her head. She's delighting in teasing back, where before she preferred to just be teased. She did her morning edge yesterday. She used her toy, to get to the edge quickly, but that made it so much harder to stop. Her plan was then to go for a run to work out her frustration, only to find it raining... So she teased me all day instead. To be fair, I returned suit, and we spend the whole day sending very very descriptive texts.

She was planning to do her second morning today, but woke up late, so sent me to bed with the image of her planning her public edge, as she put it "...try to not touch as you drift off to sleep, thinking of me biting my lip to keep from gasping your name and giving myself away"

For my part it's much harder than I thought (mind you don't step in the pun). I've gone longer without of course, but I've never had an enforced period before, no touching. It's so much different when you're forced to think of your denial, you want it all the more. The Fantasy time rule is proving unessisary, particularly with our mutual teasing - I'm thinking about it all the time.

She tells me she's looking forward to when our overlap ends, and she can tease me, and pleasure herself, without my very playful teasing back... I suspect she's having naughtier and naughtier ideas.

It's going to be a long ten days.

Hope you're enjoying following our games. Feedback of any kind is welcome.

I think I will follow them if you post them
But I suggest writing them down
and then creating a webtease based on them
As I have done with a few of my Dom's teases.