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Hi all

I love all the teases here at Milovana; they are inventive, well written (well most are) and above all a great expression of a person’s inner self.

However I have certain trouble completing some of them. I am fine with the pain aspect of the webtease (in fact the more the better) but it's my 'staying power' that lets me down .

It's very frustrating to get half way through a tease, devoting all your time and attention to it to have it end rather abruptly due to an accident.

What I was wondering is if anyone out there in the Miloverse has any tips or pointers to be able to only to edge more and longer but hold off edging whilst stroking.

Apologies if this is already a topic on the Forum but I could not find it if it is.

Thanks!

Rob

There is a real good trick to learning how to 'Hold" an Edge
Next time you go to pee
Squeeze your butt/ass
and Stop yourself in the middle of peeing

If you can stop Half way through
You have learned which musles to clench when edging


You should Also Slow your stroking down anytime you think you are getting close until You
can better 'feel' where the edge is
And by slow I mean like One stroke every 3 or 4 seconds, real slow.

and use a pain killing gell/creme such as anit bite stuff

Cheers guys, guess I had better start working out. Would prefer to do it without creams and gels but I may give them a try.

Thanks alot!

Rob

SexualChoc wrote:You should Also Slow your stroking down anytime you think you are getting close until You
can better 'feel' where the edge is
And by slow I mean like One stroke every 3 or 4 seconds, real slow.

True enough, and also play around a bit with how you stroke when being near the edge... Of course, some times a tease will have strict instructions for that - how you stroke to keep on the edge can make a huge difference in how it feels - and that's often intended...

But whenever you are free to choose, and as long as you have troubles with control, it is a good idea to start out with minimum stimulation, just using a couple fingers and staying away from the head when being near the edge. It's a lot easier to both control the "approach" as well as staying real close without accidents if you use a controlled and minimal type of stimulation. A full grip with full stroking movements will be a LOT harder. Some times you are required to tho, and the only remedy to help there is pace - slow, slower, slowest... This is probably highly personal and varies for everybody, but I for one can easily maintain an edge with a full grip without visible motion at all. Merely squeezing or moving the hand so extremely little that it can't even be seen can be enough to keep me there if I am close enough in the first place.

Bottom line is experience and knowing yourself I believe. For my own part, I learn new things about myself virtually every single time I do a tease. Often because of the input/ideas others present through their teases, but also partially from my own analysis, based on previous failures and desire to improve myself.

So... play with yourself and learn to know yourself as much as you possibly can! It makes you better at both playing with yourself as well as with a partner.

Im sure I can play with my self a little more. All in the interest of experiementing obviously......

Something else I've been wondering is does edging and stroking make a difference if you are circumsized? I myself am circumsized and wouldn't have it any other way but does this make a difference to how you would stroke and how long you can last? Any other circumsized blokes are very welcome to weigh in on this (completely off topic I know but saves making another post).

Just a musing of mine....

Rob

I'm not circumcised myself, but I would imagine there being at least minor differences aye...

As far as I understand, it is widely agreed that circumcised guys get less sensitive heads after a while - which sounds sensible to me. So if anything, that ought to make it easier to control, not harder.

But in the end of the day I suspect personal differences, experience and techniques are much more significant than circumcision anyway.