Ehehe, maybe you shouldn't cum at all?

Please her, even fuck her, and be frustrated?
Or maybe she should give you a little post-orgasm torture? Like continue stroking and sucking (or maybe even fucking, if you can cum inside) a little while after you came. It may seem unpleasent for you in the process (and it's better if you are tied down somehow, for you will not be able to hold your hands from resistingand will WISH and BEG it to stop), but trust me - it's something awesome in retrospective. BTW, this can be done to girls too, especially if you have strong enough vibrator, and this is a hell of a torture for them. Some girls can stand 2-3 orgasms in a row, but after a while it's still a torture... Pleasent one, though. We, men, are weaker. But still can be tortured a little.

The hell of an evel act, is tease someone, denying an orgasm for some time, while she knows that a torture follows. And finally, when a victim begs for release - make him/her regreat it, by torturing the sensitive cock/clit....
BTW if this occasion occured, so that she likes the idea of being in control, Maybe you should consider being a switch pair? Like one month YOU are dominant, the other - she. I know, it may be not so great idea for YOU, but if you love her you'd try to fulfill not only her submissive wishes, but the dominant ones, if she has it in her, right?

Just giving a friendly advice, being dominant myself. S&D relationships can be very tight, much tighter than normal. But there's also dangers in it too. Dom should always remember, that there's a person near him, not just a slave (even if that's what the game is all about). So IMO, dom shouldn't forget that he/she must fulfill not only he's own wishes, but partner's too. And if a partner wants to be dominant sometimes, or, maybe, if she want's normal romance and vanilla sex sometimes - you'd better consider it. Yes, being "enslaved" and dominated may be a lot of fun, but some SUB people may not notice when it stops being fun, and starts being a stress. And if she even LIKES the idea of being in control - that's a serious sign for you to be more carefull with her sobmission, so she will not overdo it.
I'm not teaching you how to live and all, and don't think I'm sticking my nose where it doesn't belong... Sorry if I overdid it. It's just that I really wish you both to be happy - Submission and Dominance rules, and it's a fortune to find a partner
