Milovana.com

Hello all,

I love this site really much. And I like the big variety of teases, that are available. Actually I am into stroking, edging, some ruined orgasms, denial and of course cumming and cumming When doing a tease it is sometimes not known how it will end and I enjoy this a lot. Suprise is something very interesting.

I tried to do one tease a day. And to follow the instructions. But mostly I am to weak, that means in case of denial I shoot my load anyway.

The idea of not knowing the end and suffering until the next tease the next day will have a lucky end is what I intend to do. But it's hard to stick to it when being horny.

What about you? How are you choosing the teases. Are you able to follow and have days without cumming. It is so hard

I find it to be much more easy and rewarding when there is a real person behind it, not only the setting of the tease. And that's one of the many reasons why I'm incredibly glad that women like Miss Jay are here

Only a few of us Wnkers here are lucky enough to have an interactive mistress
(I am married to mine)

I recomend doing a random tease a day

Now about doing a period of denial
You could
1) Set a goal for yourself
-a)write a blog/ daiily forum pst about how you are doing (I am doing this)
-b)Just stick to you're own goal!

2) Cautiously contact one of the few mistress on this site, such as Miss Jay
(Although I recommend you read her forum psots to see if you can handle her instructions)
Also Miss Jay did vanish for a bit, hopefully it will not happen again anytime soon, but it can happen

3) Buy a chastity device
This is what keeps me a 'good' boy and orgasm-free for days, that and 12 hour shifts.

4) Ask anyone on Milovana to follow you. I did this also once, Was teased buy a guy
Yes we are both hetero. This might work for you assuming there is someone willing.

5)Get an online mistress - I discourage this only because of Money- most online stuff is very cash oriented.

6)As somene in your real life to cotrol you, If you can get the courage and are lucky enough this is what I do, obviously.

Hope that helps explore options, I am sure there are a few others I didn't name but at least that will get you started.

SexualChoc wrote:
5)Get an online mistress - I discourage this only because of Money- most online stuff is very cash oriented.

Actually Second Life has a great BDSM community, and involves real relationships, not just a paid service.

Thanks for you help. Seems to be some great ideas. Will think about that and try it maybe with some help from you on the forum. It's a pity that there are only so few women arround that do like teasing guys.