Femsub teasing on chat, this Friday at midnight!
Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:44 pm
We need more women here! I think more would join and de-lurk if there was something worth de-lurking for. So, as a nice member, I'm offering my help. 
This Friday night at midnight Eastern time (New York), in the "Giggles and Games" room (NOT the lounge) of the Milovana.com chat rooms, I will be leading a teasing and edging event for women.
What you can expect: Edging. Loooots of edging, cruel in both frequency and duration. If there are just a few subs, and you all love pain, or spanking, or nipples, etc, we can discuss that, but my main goal is to drive you into insane need and then make it worse. Begging is allowed, even encouraged and sometimes (but rarely) rewarded in ways that might be unfair to everyone else. I might name a winner... The winner(s) will be chosen by me. My decision criteria would include: How long she lasted, how well she suffers, what she did after any unauthorized orgasms, if she agreed to any penalties if she accidentally cums or doesn't win, etc. etc. My point is, it isn't necessarily the one who lasts longest, and is very subject to my whim.
Even those who don't expect to stand a chance of winning are welcome. They can drop out early and still have an intense, wonderful time. I think of it like a marathon. Some people will be in it competitively, and others just want the stroll.
Requirements to play:
One more thing I do want to say: This is different than 1 on 1. If you watch or participate and don't like some of the things I do, then send me a note and let me know, but keep in mind that if there's more than 2 people to tease, my style is bound to be difficult to adjust to suit everyone. I'm more intense when I've only one subbie to focus on.
This Friday night at midnight Eastern time (New York), in the "Giggles and Games" room (NOT the lounge) of the Milovana.com chat rooms, I will be leading a teasing and edging event for women.
What you can expect: Edging. Loooots of edging, cruel in both frequency and duration. If there are just a few subs, and you all love pain, or spanking, or nipples, etc, we can discuss that, but my main goal is to drive you into insane need and then make it worse. Begging is allowed, even encouraged and sometimes (but rarely) rewarded in ways that might be unfair to everyone else. I might name a winner... The winner(s) will be chosen by me. My decision criteria would include: How long she lasted, how well she suffers, what she did after any unauthorized orgasms, if she agreed to any penalties if she accidentally cums or doesn't win, etc. etc. My point is, it isn't necessarily the one who lasts longest, and is very subject to my whim.
Even those who don't expect to stand a chance of winning are welcome. They can drop out early and still have an intense, wonderful time. I think of it like a marathon. Some people will be in it competitively, and others just want the stroll.
Requirements to play:
- You must be female. I've teased several men at once before in chat too, but I prefer women and this is about me being *ahem* completely selfless *cough* and doing something for the community.
- Be honest. If you're not doing something, say it, even though you risk disqualification. If you are having trouble edging, don't just pretend. If you lose control, admit it.
- Don't leave without saying goodbye and why you're leaving (or at least that you're unwilling to say why). If you accidentally cum, don't just sign off without a word. It's rude, and a pet peeve of mine.
- You must have a milovana.com username and password. Not my requirement; the chat doesn't allow anonymous users. Keep in mind there may be spectators. For some, that makes it a little more kinky, but for others... if that's a barrier or you don't have one already, create a new one specifically for this. That way you're anonymous behind a throwaway username.
- You must be horny and ready to cum. No orgasms for you on Thursday or Friday, if you can stand it.
- Be quiet. No comments from the peanut gallery; it destroys suspension of disbelief, contributes to gloal warning, and threatens my mojo. If you are watching-only and have a question, your understanding of what is happening is not nearly as important to me or the players as the event itself. If you're a guy, or a female that isn't playing, you can stroke along, but stay quiet. I have talked with Indigo, he's willing to give me admin privileges, and I will boot people if needed.
- Do not PM or whisper to the players. They'll need their focus. Remember, it is about them, and they're choosing to be here for this. Do not distract.
- Post here if you're coming, and any information I should know, like if you are here of your own will or have a dom who told you to attend, if you're allowed to cum, etc.
- Don't cum between now and Friday
- Make things worse, either by teasing yourself frequently or maybe no-touch until the game starts.
- Decide what your penalties are, if any, for cumming accidentally, or giving up, and tell me either through site email or, better yet, replying here.
- Tell me what special kinks you have, if you'd like me to go easy on you or be completely ruthless, what toys you have... I might not use them in the game, but I will try if I can juggle it all. If you get turned on by people who find out your turn-ons and then use them 'against' you, make sure to tell me that, too!
- Other? Please post your ideas.
One more thing I do want to say: This is different than 1 on 1. If you watch or participate and don't like some of the things I do, then send me a note and let me know, but keep in mind that if there's more than 2 people to tease, my style is bound to be difficult to adjust to suit everyone. I'm more intense when I've only one subbie to focus on.
