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Hi, I'm new to the whole sub/dom thing. My husband is really into being submissive and majorly being humiliated. I was just wondering if anyone has any ideas on male humiliation. He seems to be pretty much up for anything and I already have him wearing female clothing, around the house and in public, but I really don't know what else to do. ANY ideas or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks so much.

And if there is anyone who would just like to talk to me, that would be great. I'm a little uncomfortable with being so dominant and I would really like someone a little more experienced to talk to. Or if anyone knows of any sites where I can find someone to talk to.

Thanks so much.

Hi. Check your inbox here at Milovana. :)

Thanks. That was really helpful.

Well, this ~is~ more or less a teasing and denial website - have you started him on some type of orgasm schedule, or more specifically, a denial schedule??

And certainly, if you had him in some type of chastity device, it would CERTAINLY be amusing to you if a few of your girlfriends knew of his cage, and enjoyed teasing him about it....

That's just my first few thoughts...
Have fun...

Barry

Thanks for the advice. I never thought of putting him on schedule. I usually just tried to surprise him but a schedule might be a better idea. I like the girlfriend idea but not only do I not have very many female friends, but the ones that I do have and who know about all of this thinks that he's a freak for wanting it an me just really weird for encouraging him. I might be able to get a couple of his friends into it but I might just have to find a local group to get into, which seems pretty hard since we live in a small town in WV. But those are great ideas. I appreciate it.

Well, I think you'll find a lot of fun and encouraging people here...
I'm sure if you have an idea or want to discuss what you're about to do, or have done, we'd ALL enjoy reading about it....

Good luck..
Barry

Oh, and Windy... Please say hi to Myya for me.... It's on another thread... Thanks...

http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=5414

I'm not the most creative person but there are a couple of things we've done that I would like your opinion on or if you know of ways to make it mote interesting. I like to have my husband dress up in lingerie and do things around the house for me (cleaning and things like that), but I don't know how to make thy more interesting. I like to tie him down and tease him, with a handjob or blowjob or just my pussy, but he wants to be degraded, so how do I incorporate degrading him into that, other than making him eat his cum? I like to make him suck on a dildo with an anal probe in before he can cum...

There are diffrent kinds of humiliation.
* Working with repulsion:
- Eating cum
- Spitting
- Peeing on him/making him drink pee
- Making him eat disgusting things
- Pouring something over him, like salat oil, raw eggs, whatever
* Private more psychological stuff:
- Wearing female lingerie
- Eating from boals/the floar
- Bathroom controll/diapers/enemas...
- Body writing
- Denial
- Fucking him with a strapon
- Post orgasm torture
- Tasks like crawling arround, kneeling in a corner, ...
- Behaviour modification like not beeing allowed to look into your eyes, having to ask for simple things like something to drink, ...
- Forced gay stuff, like stroking to gay porn
* Public:
- Wearing lingerie und clothing
- Wearing a plug or another toy in public
- Wearing diapers (and possibly use them) in public
- Lingerie shopping
- Edging etc. in semi-public places
- Having to address you as "Mistress" in public
...
That's just the result of a quick brainstroming. I tried to cover a broad variation of "common" and not too extreme practices.