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My first thought on this is that you can't have multiple dominants - by definition. The dominant is the person "calling the shots" as it were. So while it may be any submissive's dream to get that sort of attention, as a dominant I don't find this a particularly hot fantasy.

Maybe others will disagree, but to me this is the classic naive submissive scenario. The whole world is only there to please you. Well, you want to be a submissive. Here is your first lesson: It's not.

Not that I don't understand the feeling behind it, to want to be overwhelmed by a tremendous powerful force. But the way isn't to enlist an army of dommes, but rather to find the one person who can overwhelm you on his or her own.

My 2 cents.

I generally agree with Seraph0x that he best way to be dom'ed or domme'd is one on one with the right person calling the shots, but I think that there are two other things to consider.

One, this is an attempt to play out a fantasy. I would never suggest that a person who is new to this lifestyle or just starting to explore try any real-life scene involving large numbers of people. That would be overwhelming, many subs aren't clear on their own limits or their own power to say No and it could turn bad really quickly if the dominant group wasn't responsible. And let's face it, with group dynamics and sexual role-play, it's easy for responsibility to go out the window.

But this is virtual, on-line, the sub doesn't actully have to do anything commanded but may simply get off on the interaction with a group of people. So it is a chance to get a taste of the fantasy without the reality or the risk in real-life.

Second, I don't agree that there can only be one dominant person in a scene. I think we're too quick to list people as doms or subs, when in reality I view it as a spectrum. So, I think it's reasonable to think of it as tiers of doms - one in charge of the overall scene, and others taking direction from that person, but free to act on their own within whatever limits are set by the lead dom, and of course the sub.

Likewise I've been in situations with two subs - one given power, by me, to dominate the other. Again, I have the ultimate say on limits, but within the parameters I've set, one sub is being dominated by me and then, based on his or he own desires, dominating the second sub.

Anyway, just my thoughts.

Oh and Indy, expect a PM from me !

Mistress D

I think we should hear a word or two from this curious young lady.

-L

Lindsey wrote:I think we should hear a word or two from this curious young lady.

-L

Yes, that would make this more interesting.