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Hello : )

I have a simple question. How to I ruin orgasms?

It does not work for me to stroke up to an edge and then suddenly think on something different. In one case it just does not happen anything and in the other case I cum.

So, how do I learn to ruin an orgasm? What is the technique?

Thanks in advance

Best resource IMO for "how to" ruin an orgasm ( In a variety of wicked ways :D )... http://taylorsteases.com/roguide/index.html

I guess the most common she has called 'Abandoning' and you do still cum just it doesn't feel anywhere near as great, hence 'ruined' :)

Firstly it is easiest after a few days denial!

Then, as you push it just over the edge, let go and try and control your muscles from twitching. It does take practice to get just the right moment to let go and also some practice to control the twitching. But if you get it right, the cum just oozes out and you get very little or no orgasm sensation.

I haven't found that I am immediately horny straight after, like some of the teases require, but I do "recover" much quicker than after a full orgasm.

Easiest way to ruin orgasms is to let go the closer you get, if you practice you can learn what the full range of sensations are before letting loose, and stretch each sensation out. Especially the feeling right before you pop.
Cumming without getting hard... now thats a whole different ballpark, thats takes serious dedication, I've seen some video's of prostate massage as well as teasing where they either end up peeing precum like a maple tree in spring, or blowing their load without ever touching their penis. The precum fascinates me because it was a LARGE amount of fluid leaving the man. probably 15-20 seconds worth. If i could figure that out i'd be amused for hours.

I've discovered a cool trick relating to this as well. If you completely relax your pc muscle as your orgasm is being ruined (so you don't get contractions, this is very difficult and it probably won't work the first few times) you won't cum in the traditional sense but you'll just ejaculate a clear liquid without sperm. There's almost no refractory period when you do it like this and you'll still feel horny. Use it well!

Try this technique:

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mu wrote:I've discovered a cool trick relating to this as well. If you completely relax your pc muscle as your orgasm is being ruined (so you don't get contractions, this is very difficult and it probably won't work the first few times) you won't cum in the traditional sense but you'll just ejaculate a clear liquid without sperm. There's almost no refractory period when you do it like this and you'll still feel horny. Use it well!

Yes, I think this is indeed the key. And it does take a lot of practice and discipline. Massive amounts of edging to "pre-exhaust" the muscle often work for me. Several hours of solitude in a nice comfortable position and when you're ready for your ruining attempt, a few deep breaths with eyes closed and then just let go (literally) and let yourself drain out. Once your more accustomed to the sensation it will begin to get a bit easier. The delicious frustration and that puddle of weak, nearly clear juice on your belly will be amazing.

One interesting way is by inserting one q tip/ cotton bud inside the urethra, a few strokes prior to the moment of orgasm.
Another is by inserting some salt, with the aid of a toothpick, with leaving both in while the subject is having an orgasm.
Third: beating the subject's balls with a pencil while he is having an orgasm, having him collect the sperm in his own hand, then watch him eat it.

kinkydomina wrote:One interesting way is by inserting one q tip/ cotton bud inside the urethra, a few strokes prior to the moment of orgasm.
Another is by inserting some salt, with the aid of a toothpick, with leaving both in while the subject is having an orgasm.
Third: beating the subject's balls with a pencil while he is having an orgasm, having him collect the sperm in his own hand, then watch him eat it.

Wow! What wicked ideas

Little Miss Jay x

Well, that sounds interesting, but also a bit different kind of "ruining" than ahtanal probably had in mind.

A pencil... that is wicked...

kinkydomina wrote:One interesting way is by inserting one q tip/ cotton bud inside the urethra, a few strokes prior to the moment of orgasm.
Another is by inserting some salt, with the aid of a toothpick, with leaving both in while the subject is having an orgasm.
Third: beating the subject's balls with a pencil while he is having an orgasm, having him collect the sperm in his own hand, then watch him eat it.

May i ask what the salt does at all please ?

The salt makes everything very painful.

wow sounds scary thank you Kinky Domina

kinkydomina wrote:The salt makes everything very painful.

I was going to say - that's some pretty tender flesh you are talking about there. It would definitely sting a lot!

Everything in moderation.
Some slaves beg for more, though...
A slave gave me this idea, to go for salt.