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Hello all,

So, my pet has been without an orgasm since Tuesday morning. While this may not seem like a lot to some, I've been making it exceptionally difficult for him. I'm not sure he's gone a night with more than a few hour's sleep (and I mean a few hours) and as he is well aware, the "spell breaks" on Friday. He has been an amazing sub, I'm luckier than I ever could have imagined I could be. He's obediant and takes pain and torment with such loyalty that just typing this sentence makes me wet! Between requiring him to edge continuously and denying him any access to my pussy, I'm sure he's going crazy. This is where I need some help.

I would like some ideas of both rewards and punishments. Why both, you might ask? We still have over 24 hours before I intend to reward him, and who knows if he can last that long. I'd like a punishment and reward from each person who posts a reply, with the guarantee that one of them will be chosen in case he disobeys, and as a reward. The best part about it is that I know my pet will read this post and see all of your replies, so please make them interesting (but not tooooooo severe ). I thank you in advance for your assistance.

Mistress Jean

Thanks, Indigo. I really like your take on submission. It especially clicks with me and my girlfriend/mistress. Since we've got such a strong relationship already, with good communication and lots in common, our teasing times have been very emotional for both of us, so far.

Nwo, I've got two words for you my friend: not. cool. But it's okay. The punish/reward concept can be pretty powerful, and I'm sure there will be times when my Mistress wants to take advantage of it. I'm pretty confident that now isn't one of those times, though. Right?

Anyway. Nobody said I couldn't post a punishment/reward, so here goes.

Reward first (because I know I'm going to succeed ) A blow job. But not just any blow job, this should be a really epic blow job. It should be done with both of us completely naked. There should be lots of touching, kissing, and caressing leading up to it. And it should involve multiple edges. (Yeah, I know, I've done probably close to 50 edges in the last couple days, but I don't want this to be over too quickly.) So maybe it would be five or ten edges, but unlike the edges I've been doing lately, there'd be no begging or uncertainty involved. I'd know before the edge whether it was the final one. And I wouldn't have to beg for a release. That's my suggestion for a reward.

For a punishment, well that's a bit trickier. If it's no good, I know she won't pick it, but if it's too harsh, I know there's that slight chance that I might end up experiencing it. So, here goes. My Mistress has been doing great at tease and denial, so far, but we haven't done a whole lot with pain or corporal punishment. So I think my first real punishment should be a bit of a grab bag session, so that she has the chance to experiment and gauge my reactions and find things that I really don't like.

So first, I'd be restrained, naked, to the bed. I'd be spread-eagled and completely exposed. The punishment would start with some slaps and bites. Nipples, balls, cock, chest, stomach, and inner thighs would all be areas that she could test out. Then she might switch to clothespins, placing them on my nipples, cock, and balls of course, but also other sensitive areas, like thighs, sides, and arms. When she gets tired of pulling and twisting on them, she might pull them all off, one at a time, or she might leave some on, to take off later. Next would be hot wax. A couple of large candles could be lit at the beginning of the punishment, so that she could drizzle the melted wax all over my chest, armpits, stomach, cock, balls, and thighs. Of course, she could experiment with how far away to drip the wax and how much to pour at one time. Then she might end with an IcyHot treatment. Putting some on my nipples before reapplying some clothespins, and then slathering it over my cock and balls. Jerking me to a good solid erection, only to let go just as the fire sets in. Then she could leave me on the bed, twitching and gasping for ten minutes or so for the IcyHot to wear off, before coming back, removing the last few clothespins, releasing me from the bed, and telling me she never wants to be that disappointed in me again.

Yeah, I think maybe I went too far. Maybe you can just ignore my suggestion for a punishment, right Mistress? ... please?

~pet

Too late, but now you've got me thinking.

Reward:
Oral sex, for you. Serving you is a privilege and when he knows it's as a reward and he's allowed to savor it, it's better.

Another reward idea:
A chance to cum. If he's been good, the chances can be higher, but there should always be a perceived chance, IMO, if only in his mind, so that even while he's getting really close he still doesn't know for sure. One of the hottest things I read was about a sub who deserved harsh punishment and she tied him up and gave him a great handjob instead. The message was clear: Her whim is law, not some rule book.

Punishment:
The Pleasure or Tickling game. He's tied, and forbidden to cum. You switch between pleasure or tickling, back and forth, no rest, experimenting with your technique/speed/intensity. Until you decide differently, as soon as he tells you to stop tickling him, go back to stroking/etc instead of making him beg more. It starts off fun, like a reward, but you'll quickly learn which spots are more effective. The pleasure actually becomes a torture he tries to ignore, pulling him closer to the edge where his best and only option is to ask/beg for more tickling. Heaven help him if you decide to start using more than just your fingers! The game ends when you feel like it, which might be a very long time depending on why he's being punished. If he cums... well... his punishment for that can wait until the game is over, and until then you'll find that all parts of his body, especially the tip of his cock (for stroking) and his balls (for tickling), are so much more sensitive that you won't feel like stopping any time soon. A nice thing about this punishment is that it's self-tuning: If he hates tickling then he'll be better off because he should be able to sustain more stroking that way, right? On the other hand, if he finds tickling a turn-on...

If he's really bad, or if you feel like it, you can make things more intense with blindfolds, and oiled skin is much more ticklish.

And remember, if you were to sit on his cock so you can feel him squirm better while you tickle his balls, that's not fair, but that doesn't mean it's against the rules.