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ok so dream situation for most guys here i mentioned chastity devices to my girlfriend and she loves the idea, my only problem is we're equal with who's the dominant one, which works well we both enjoy being submissive and dominant but if i was wearing a chastity device i would be the submissive one all the time and shes said she doesnt want to always be the dominant which is fair enough i want her to be happy with r sex life but any help making this wrk would be great thanks

Why don't you agree upon a timespan (a week, a month, 6 months...whatever works for both of you) during which one of you will be the dominate one and the other submissive. At the end of the timeframe, you reverse rolls for an equal time.

Chastity devices for females do exists

You could both make a pledge of chastity !!

easy: both of you guys go into chastity and help eachother keep the commitment for say, a month. i think you'll find desperately grinding and groping and kissing with your belts on and getting nowhere to be intensely erotic. you both be the submissive.

hey thanx for the help guys i appreciate it
just a few points tohelp narrow down my problems, we're both into being submissive and dominant but we dont want to involve anyone else in are sex life
also we're only into male chastity

from what you have said you wont have much chance of an orgasm then. Maybe play a game of chance with your gf rolling the dice, if she gets its right she has to be dominant over you, if she gets it wrong then you both must remain submissive.

If she is dominant over you then you might get chance to have sex but it is still going to be her choice.


good luck in whatever you choose.
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