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First of all thank you for the many teases with ruined orgasms. This is a nice alternative to just denial or permission to cum.

On the other hand, it is very difficult for me to ruin an orgasm by myself. For me, this is all about loosing control. Getting over the edge an then not being able to prevent your cum from oozing out and thus feeling the frustration.
It is not the same, when I'm actualy controling this by stopping the stimulation myself.

Some time ago, I had a girlfriend who gave me handjobs with ruined orgasm. The best thing was that I didn't know before what she would do. It was totaly frustrating but also one of the most arousing experiences I ever made.

What di think about this?

I agree - the sense of frustration isn't anywhere the same as it is with someone else randomly controlling things. Sure, you might be able to ruin things to a degree, and it may be unsatisfying but as with most cyber-esque things, it's nowhere as close to the real thing. :(

...at least that's my take on it.

ghostalternative wrote:Some time ago, I had a girlfriend who gave me handjobs with ruined orgasm. The best thing was that I didn't know before what she would do. It was totaly frustrating but also one of the most arousing experiences I ever made.

What di think about this?

I too have had girlfriends who ruined orgasms, but I don't think they knew that that was what they were doing at the time. Mostly, they would just stop the hand job as I was cumming, thinking it would be uncomfortable to continue, when what I really wanted was for them to continue.

My current flame does this most of the time. We've turned it into a fun way to end long periods of T&D. It's really frustrating when she decides to do it as a way of finishing a BJ!