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Hello Milovanians,

I`m currently writing a new tease based around this idea ( 10 tease commandments) and was just wondering if anyone out there had any ideas? What`s really important to you as a Domme or Sub ? What really gets you going and also what do you really not like (in teases and or real life situ)??

So if anyone has ideas they will be most welcome, thanks for your time

slave alexander

I think the most important for anyone is to have someone who understands you.
For me, as a sub, it would seem obvious that the Mistress in charge, concentrates on me as well.

Of course you submit to Her, willingly, but it should not be so that there is only to give and not to receive so to speak. There has to be a reward to it. Else it would mean real slavery i.e. centuries back.

Some people might get off on it, but i feel most don't.

Cool thanks Slaafbarry I agree about the trust being there as essential
And have a definate number ten now thanks Aria

good work guys !!

Keep those answers coming though please

what gets me off is real creativity, not just dominance but sadism - if the girl enjoys what she does in a evil way thats amazing.

one thing i would like to say personally puts me off is the idea of doing pre numbered edges or strokes - when a tease disolves into every page saying "stroke 100 times" or "edge 3 times" - thats extremely unsexy, partly because its so monotone but also because its so unimaginitive - so put some personality behind the instructions and better yet think of something totally new and amazing


not asking for anything unreasonable, am i?


yeah i was kidding with the think of something new and amazing thing - :P - i find it very hard to write teases personally! and really appreciate when people put a lot of work into theres

sexualreflex909 wrote: one thing i would like to say personally puts me off is the idea of doing pre numbered edges or strokes - when a tease disolves into every page saying "stroke 100 times" or "edge 3 times" - thats extremely unsexy, partly because its so monotone but also because its so unimaginitive - so put some personality behind the instructions and better yet think of something totally new and amazing


not asking for anything unreasonable, am i?


yeah i was kidding with the think of something new and amazing thing - :P - i find it very hard to write teases personally! and really appreciate when people put a lot of work into theres

haha good one i know what you mean about the 100x etc but sometimes it does boil down to that but my thinking hat is on thankyou!!

What about "You shall worship my pussy/breasts/feet/mouth/ass (delete as appropriate for your favourite) and mine alone"

You could show a picture of the mistress's relevant object to be worshipped. Then you are shown a montage of similar ones from different women. The teasee has to choose which is the mistress's. If he gets it wrong he is punished.

You could do that by having a page number under each pic and the user jumps to that page for the answer.

I've not delved into the techie side of teases yet but I've seen similar things done.

coconuts wrote:What about "You shall worship my pussy/breasts/feet/mouth/ass (delete as appropriate for your favourite) and mine alone"

You could show a picture of the mistress's relevant object to be worshipped. Then you are shown a montage of similar ones from different women. The teasee has to choose which is the mistress's. If he gets it wrong he is punished.

You could do that by having a page number under each pic and the user jumps to that page for the answer.

I've not delved into the techie side of teases yet but I've seen similar things done.

I like your ideas coconuts but my skills as a computer god alas may constrict me this time!!
You shall worshiip my __ tho can def be incorporated cool than you

please keep them coming (unlike myself at the mo!!)

ariareflection wrote:Τhe 10th commandment can't be anything else than "You will NOT cum without permission".

I will suggest one commandment that really turns me on...

- "You will stare ONLY into my eyes, unless i say ortherwise". Of course you need special pictures for that, in which the eyes will be clearly visible, and the girls will be naked or semi-naked (boobs, legs, or pussy exposed etc").

So, Aria, are you able to do this one? I always assume that once a guy reads something like "Look only at my eyes, not my breasts" the last place they are going to look is the girl's eyes!

Another variation of that is to have a picture of a very sexy girl naked or nearly naked, and allow the guy to look wherever he wants, but not to touch himself at all. This probably would work best in flash teases becasue then you can have a hidden timer. Then on the next page, ask something simple, like "Was I wearing a ring?" - something that would be noticed if the person was paying attenion to the entire picture, but would be missed if they only focused on certain parts. If they get it right, allow them to edge to the original picture. If not, 10 hard ball slaps! (and yes, I do play real life versions of this sort of game with my toy sometimes! I know if I'm wearing stockings and high heels he might not even notice if I dyed my hair!)

And I would argue "Thou shall not cum without permission" is commandment #1. As far as I am concerned that is the most important aspect of the pwer exchange!

Mistress D

MistressD wrote:

ariareflection wrote:Τhe 10th commandment can't be anything else than "You will NOT cum without permission".

I will suggest one commandment that really turns me on...

- "You will stare ONLY into my eyes, unless i say ortherwise". Of course you need special pictures for that, in which the eyes will be clearly visible, and the girls will be naked or semi-naked (boobs, legs, or pussy exposed etc").

So, Aria, are you able to do this one? I always assume that once a guy reads something like "Look only at my eyes, not my breasts" the last place they are going to look is the girl's eyes!

Another variation of that is to have a picture of a very sexy girl naked or nearly naked, and allow the guy to look wherever he wants, but not to touch himself at all. This probably would work best in flash teases becasue then you can have a hidden timer. Then on the next page, ask something simple, like "Was I wearing a ring?" - something that would be noticed if the person was paying attenion to the entire picture, but would be missed if they only focused on certain parts. If they get it right, allow them to edge to the original picture. If not, 10 hard ball slaps! (and yes, I do play real life versions of this sort of game with my toy sometimes! I know if I'm wearing stockings and high heels he might not even notice if I dyed my hair!)

And I would argue "Thou shall not cum without permission" is commandment #1. As far as I am concerned that is the most important aspect of the pwer exchange!

Mistress D

Thank you v much Mistress D great points, as far as the flash teases are concerned I may have to recruit a crack team of boffins to assist with the technical side!! I like the Tho shall not part especially ..
do you think anyone would be offended of the religious connotations ?? I may have already crossed that line!! If aria doesn`t object, I`ll make Thou shall not cum without permission #1!!

slave alexander wrote:Thank you v much Mistress D great points, as far as the flash teases are concerned I may have to recruit a crack team of boffins to assist with the technical side!! I like the Tho shall not part especially ..
do you think anyone would be offended of the religious connotations ?? I may have already crossed that line!! If aria doesn`t object, I`ll make Thou shall not cum without permission #1!!

I think once you name it "Ten tease commandments" you've pretty much taken care of offending anyone who would be offended by the religious connotation

Just a guess, but anyone on this site that is strongly religious is likely to at least have a sense of humor about it.

And another good one (that the Mistresses all like):

#2 Thou shalt lick and massage the feet of thy Mistress (not sure how that one works for a tease though - probably better in real life)

Mistress D

MistressD wrote:

slave alexander wrote:Thank you v much Mistress D great points, as far as the flash teases are concerned I may have to recruit a crack team of boffins to assist with the technical side!! I like the Tho shall not part especially ..
do you think anyone would be offended of the religious connotations ?? I may have already crossed that line!! If aria doesn`t object, I`ll make Thou shall not cum without permission #1!!

I think once you name it "Ten tease commandments" you've pretty much taken care of offending anyone who would be offended by the religious connotation

Just a guess, but anyone on this site that is strongly religious is likely to at least have a sense of humor about it.

And another good one (that the Mistresses all like):

#2 Thou shalt lick and massage the feet of thy Mistress (not sure how that one works for a tease though - probably better in real life)

Mistress D

Mistress D as always your feedback is both insightful and witty thank you again, #2 is growing on me I`ll have to try and think of how to do it tho!!

Don`t be shy everyone lets hear it
Also the stuff you don`t like in teases/& real life
What about imagery lets hear it please

Power exchange is key. The Domme needs to be truly paying attention to what she's doing, and be into the tease as much as me, the recipient. I don't like tasks assigned as if selected off of a pre-printed menu. Taunting words do the job best, not just cold humiliating names, although that sort of thing might be skillfully worked-in. Engagement is important. She might ask me rhetorical questions that I would answer for myself, not choosing "yes" or "no." ---"Doink."

ariareflection wrote:

ariareflection wrote:Τhe 10th commandment can't be anything else than "You will NOT cum without permission".

I will suggest one commandment that really turns me on...

- "You will stare ONLY into my eyes, unless i say ortherwise". Of course you need special pictures for that, in which the eyes will be clearly visible, and the girls will be naked or semi-naked (boobs, legs, or pussy exposed etc").

MistressD wrote: So, Aria, are you able to do this one? I always assume that once a guy reads something like "Look only at my eyes, not my breasts" the last place they are going to look is the girl's eyes!

Mistress D

I've done a few teases like that in the past. They're quite amazing and challenging. Of course the first time, i made the mistake to peak and i ended up with a punishment. But since then, i follow every command by the letter., whatever that is.

I think my Mistresses comments are based on me - I might start out looking at the eyes, but that won't last...

ariareflection wrote:

ariareflection wrote:- "If your name is birdman, you will stay in chastity for 10 months"

I don't think I like this one at all

ariareflection wrote: - "You will edge X times before you sleep and X times when you're awake, every day".
- "You will edge X times, every time before you login to Milovana, and X times before you logout"

I REALLY like this idea and have been thinking about doing something like this for my pets for some time!

Its very teasey and will really remind you who owns that cock!!

Little Miss Jay x

ariareflection wrote: Many people including me, believe that morning's sex is the best. I really wonder how it would feel to do the opposite every morning... To open my eyes, edge and start the day denied before even getting up from bed.

I love to wake up in the morning, stroke my toys cock a few times (if it isn't locked up) and then make him edge a couple of times (assuming he's allowed to at the time).

It definitely wakes him up in the morning!

Mistress D