"The Stand In" (for me)

[Cross22]

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“The Stand In”…..We were young when we married. It was about a month when my wife noticed most of the time I preferred her hands to having conventional sex with her. It turned out to be a problem with no solution. Even though I was 100% heterosexual, it was irreversible. She said she loved me no matter what. She was a slender blond and extremely pretty and I felt guilty. I proposed a “stand in”. Someone who didn’t have the problems I did. Initially, her answer was ‘no” but the more I talked the more she listened. I told her we could separate emotion from sex and not jeopardize our marriage. She finally agreed to try it, but just once, and if it didn’t work out, never again. My best friend was chosen and he agreed. She went to his place that first time. When she returned we talked while in bed. I asked her to tell me how it was. With her hands on me she began. She kept me on the edge the entire time and was quick to notice a positive response when I had asked to compare us. She said although he wasn’t as well endowed he it was like nothing she had experienced. He was fantastic in bed with her. She noticed another positive response from me when she said with an apology, “you have so much. what a waste to have what you have”. Surprisingly her humiliating words excited not only me, but her also. We experimented more. The greater the humiliation relating to my inabilities, versus his abilities, the greater my response. We agreed to continue with the “Stand In”. Within a week she began experimenting with “instructing” me while she talked and watched. Within a month she was “instructing” the majority of the time. One night she told me she had related this to the “Stand In”. His response was; since he was the “stand in” it should in total. In other words he told her she should exclusively “instruct” me. After that it was extremely rare to have her hands on me and she “instructed” me almost exclusively. This continued on for almost nine years. My best friend finally married and suggested a close friend of his to take over. He was a confirmed bachelor and he is still “The Stand In”. And, we are still married and extremely happy. She now “instructs” about 80% of the time, and uses her hands the remainder. She also has become quite interested in increasing the number of times a week we do this. Given my preference, it’s impossible to resist this wish.

[cumhardy]

wow

I wish my van was that dirty.

great stuff cheers for sharing sounds like a good life

[Cross22]

Just goes to show. Love overcomes everything.