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PMs spending ages in Outbox and not being sent
Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2026 5:19 pm
by forbiddendesire
Hello,
I'm having an issue where I'm trying to PM someone. But my messages are sitting in my out of for weeks at a time, and not being sent. I don't know why this happens or what to do. Please help. Thanks
Re: PMs spending ages in Outbox and not being sent
Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2026 8:08 pm
by Visitor from Bound Anna
forbiddendesire wrote: Sun Jun 07, 2026 5:19 pm
Hello,
I'm having an issue where I'm trying to PM someone. But my messages are sitting in my out of for weeks at a time, and not being sent. I don't know why this happens or what to do. Please help. Thanks
Probably that the recipient has not read it. After they open it, it goes to your sent folder
Re: PMs spending ages in Outbox and not being sent
Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2026 5:11 am
by edger477
Visitor from Bound Anna wrote: Sun Jun 07, 2026 8:08 pm
Probably that the recipient has not read it. After they open it, it goes to your sent folder
I confirm this - it depends who you send pm to, if they do not log in and open the message it stays in your outbox.
Re: PMs spending ages in Outbox and not being sent
Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2026 12:24 pm
by forbiddendesire
edger477 wrote: Mon Jun 08, 2026 5:11 am
I confirm this - it depends who you send pm to, if they do not log in and open the message it stays in your outbox.
Visitor from Bound Anna wrote: Sun Jun 07, 2026 8:08 pm
Probably that the recipient has not read it. After they open it, it goes to your sent folder
Thank you! That makes things much more clear - it seemed very arbitrary as sometimes it would seem to send almost immediately, where I would get a reply the next day, and sometimes would take weeks.