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Wicked High Heel Teasing Rejection Game

Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2025 11:15 pm
by KittyZateez
The following description of a soft/gentle Female Domination scenario was recently stirred up in my naughty fantasies for some reason, so I thought I’d take an opportunity to describe it here for any interested parties…I’m sure there are those of you around somewhere!

It introduces the idea of the Sensual Domme as a role within the soft domination genre, which just so happens to be something I’ve embraced throughout my travels in my personal, private life and also here online. The idea of an erotic tease and denial mind game inside this type of role play is also of particular interest, so here we go…

Firstly, the “Sensual Domme” is a specific kind of role that generally fits into the category of so-called “gentle” or “soft” Female Domination. Instead of the harsher aspects of BDSM such as impact play and degradation/humiliation, gentle/soft female domination is a reward-based approach that is explored with a high level of emotional involvement and sensitivity. It typically focuses on activities like light bondage, sensory teasing, and consensually agreed upon roleplay mind games.

This style has always been exactly my cup of tea, and from my perspective it’s quite erotic too…

One technique a Sensual Domme might use to arouse and enslave her passive submissive male is to select one of his fixations or fetishes and use it to take advantage of him in whatever ways she decides. In doing so, they both can derive great pleasure when the lovely temptress demonstrates its power over her willing subject! She will enjoy using it to excite him, tease him and toy with him sexually - all in order to take his power away and gain more and more control over him.

In such a situation, a scheming, dominant, prickteaser can use various techniques of fetish-based enticement to lure her subject into an inescapable pussy trap of her own design. And all it takes is to present him with a particular fetish object – one that he finds completely irresistible - right out of his deepest desires.

Of course, sometimes the fun of this is discovering something kinky that he loves, but something that she doesn’t know about yet. In that kind of situation, she gets to enjoy the process of coercing and manipulating him into confessing it to her!

For example, one common fetish that submissive males have is for women’s sexy high-heeled shoes or boots. For certain types of men, these objects represent feminine superiority and female supremacy in many ways, the most obvious one being the way they escalate the height of the female when she wears them, and also the dainty way her pretty feet look when they are perched up high upon them.

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Knowing this, a Sensual Domme might choose to entice and seduce one of her helpless male playthings into an erotic cocktease reward and rejection game – all by simply using her lovely spikey stilettos.

The starting point of the game is frequently the purchase of some wonderfully sexy spike-heeled shoes, typically done by the male for his Goddess. She’ll encourage her obedient submissive to buy a pair of lovely, spikey, strappy stripper heels or kinky, thigh-high spike-heeled Dominatrix boots as a gift for his Mistress.

His selection will always be ones he knows she’ll like - but also ones that excite him sexually. This way they both know that when she teases him with them he will become highly aroused and wildly attracted to them, serving only to further her ultimate power over him.

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On any given occasion, he may choose to surprise her with his choice of purchase, or she may decide to select a pair herself and coerce him into buying them for her, something he will be more than happy to do…

Either way, his generous compliance with her desire to receive gifts from him will serve as an incentive for this dominant TeaserGirl to reward her passive male plaything with a delectable high heel tease and worship game - or provide him with whatever other erotic pleasures she deems appropriate to bestow upon him. This approach is one example of the previously mentioned gentle domination roleplay in that it is explored with a style of loving, nurturing, reward-based behavior.

That is, of course, unless she decides to be a little wicked and cruel during a kinky game night by injecting some mild deceit and trickery into the scenario, turning things into an evening of naughtier mindfuck activities. Either way, her actions and behavior will be intensely appealing and deliciously erotic to the infatuated, obsessed male sex slave that she’s taken personal possession of!

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Her decision of whether to be naughty or nice (or both) to her helpless subbie on any particular evening will generally not be made known to him ahead of time, either. Even she may not decide in advance exactly which way things might go; she instead may choose to go with the flow of the night’s erotic games and let the decision come to her naturally as things proceed.

But no matter her intentions on any given night, the scene will always begin with the gorgeous Domina instructing her enslaved victim to fetch the sexy shoes or boots he purchased for her and put them on her.

But this directive can go one of two ways, with this seemingly simple task being made relatively easy to do…or less so. You see, if she is so inclined, she may opt to tease him, messing with his mind by wiggling her foot around when he tries to slip the shoe on it, preventing him from doing so. Or she could pull it away entirely, causing the same result, tormenting him with his own inability to slip the sexy shoe onto her pretty foot.

A little chasing game can ensue here when he tries to come and get her dainty foot after she pulls it away, and that will provide her with the opportunity to decide whether she’ll give her foot back and hold it still so he’ll be granted the privilege of putting her new kinky shoe on it, or whether she’ll continue to reject his attempts.

Repeating the naughty chase game several times, offering her foot to him only to move it away when he comes after it, serves to increase his desire and escalate his need to see it all dressed up and adorned in the exotic footwear. His growing desperation also weakens his will and furthers his need to play along with all her kinky desires and delectably cruel prickteasing games.

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Of course, each foot can be used to toy with him in such a manner before finally holding them still and allowing him to slip her feet into the lovely shoes. And after being teased and toyed with for however long she decides to do so, when she finally allows him to put the shoes or boots on it will be a highly enjoyable reward.

If they’re a pair of stripper heels, he’ll slide her toes into the vamp, wrapping up her lovely curvy ankle in the shiny strap and sliding it into the tiny, dainty little buckle. If they’re the kinky boots it will be simply delightful for him to slide her sexy, fleshy leg all the way into the length of the leather or PVC and slowly zip them…all the way up.

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Once they’re on she may decide to torment him for a little while by scolding him for failing to successfully put the shoe on her at first, taking too long to do it, even though all the while they both know it is she who is preventing it from happening in the first place!

This is the point in the kinky, sexually dominant game where some bondage toys may be introduced into the scenario. As stated before, impact play is usually not a focus of this style of Female Domination, but with the submissive’s consent it can be used to scold or punish him in a playful manner.

In that way it is not about the pain, but more about the symbolism of him being naughty or disobedient and hence being deserving of gentle punishment and behavioral control. This style of BDSM is more psychological than physical, and many of us know full well that for certain people, it is even more erotic and enjoyable.

A common toy used for this is a short riding crop. It can be wielded with specific precision, and the force of the strike can be quite gentle if so desired, which again is evocative of the symbolism of being punished more so than the harshness of any pain inflicted. Of course, the force of the hit can be varied greatly and things can casually cross over into a mild infliction of pain, as can experimenting with different locations on his body to gently punish.

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Tapping the male sub on the cheek while calling him naughty or a bad boy is a common method to assert a sense of authority (and a hint of fear, too, perhaps) over him. If the Gentle Dominatrix wants to take things to a more erotic place (like if she decides her sub has been particularly disobedient), she can playfully swat his sexual organ, which may or may not be in a state of arousal and erection at that point.

After she has enjoyed this kind of playful, erotic scolding and punishment, the Domina will frequently proceed to a phase of the teasing game that involves visual stimulation. This is performed with the intention of continuing to arouse and sexually excite her willing subject, increasing his desire for her and furthering his need to please her and obey her every wish…

It is the process of her showing herself off for him - and in the case of an evening based on high heel teasing games, she’ll be offering her shoes or boots to her loveslave. Accompanying that there can either be an implied or perhaps even promised reward of being allowed to worship them with touches of his hands, kisses of his lips, and licks of his tongue. But things may not always go the way the horny little teaseboy expects…

Of course, a common approach for an experienced Domina here is to have a condition on his behavior, offering him a pleasurable reward only if he follows her guidance and obeys all her commands during the evening’s fun and games. Only then will he be given his treat…or so she says…

So as the visual tease begins, usually by having him sit on the floor beneath her, she begins strutting around him in her deliciously enticing high heels – doing so in an almost predatory fashion. Her body absolutely oozes luscious, feminine sexual supremacy as she wiggly-jiggles and bouncy-bounces her forbidden charms round and round his stationary posture. Gentle pats on the head can be added here, making him feel like some sort of pet, as can playful taps or swats with her crop - wherever she wants to give them to him.

In and out of his line of sight her goodies go, with her lovely femininity being shown off for him as she comes around in front of him, only to be taken away from his anxious view as she goes behind him - over and over and over. During her enticing display, she might command him to look only at her sexy feet and shoes whenever she comes around in front of him, and then demand that he provide the appropriate verbal adoration of them.

Or she might stay silent as she circles him, simply leaving him to his own devices with regard to where to look, knowing he will almost certainly choose to visually drink in every inch of whatever aspects of her considerable charms he wants to. Of course, in that case she might take note of where he is looking the most and command him to provide the same approving verbal commentary regarding that area, catering to her desire for ongoing flattery from her quickly weakening submissive male plaything.

Perhaps some posing would occur next to excite him further, with her standing in front of him, facing away from him with her legs spread wide to present the heels themselves to his now excited gaze. Back and forth the weight of her curvy body would shift from one lovely leg to the other, with both of them stacked right on top those super-sexy shoes or boots.

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His eyes will likely move up and down every inch of each gorgeous leg as she poses for him, with his gaze lingering on the spike heels as the erotic symbols of her undisputed sexual superiority over him. His level of desire and sexual arousal would most likely be escalating at this point…

Still facing away from him, she might move her legs together, placing her feet right next to each other and then lean forward on something to hold her balance so she can lift one kinky shoe up toward his face. She’ll show it to him and offer it to him, slowly rotating it round and round at the ankle, making sure the spiked stiletto is moving around right before his eyes.

If she is inclined to be a little wicked, she might even hold the kinky stiletto nice and close to his lips, as though she is wanting him to kiss it, perhaps even making a smooching sound to string him along. But unfortunately for him, when he attempts to obey her and reaches forward with his mouth, she’ll simply giggle mischievously and pull it away! All of this is part of the wildly erotic mind game of sexual teasing, one that they both enjoy quite thoroughly…

Anyway, after a minute or two of whatever level of offering and withholding she chooses to explore, she’ll take her oh-sooo-sexxxy shoe away and simply plant it resolutely back down on the floor. The same offering, baiting, teasing and denying can be done with the other shoe, or not - all according to her wonderfully wicked whims.

Next she might decide to put on another display of her feminine superiority by having him crawl along behind her on his hands and knees while she struts along right in front of him. This is frequently another point in the scene where some additional bondage toys are introduced because, if she so desires, she can employ a collar and leash when she wants to lead her submissive along behind her.

The wonderfully round, fleshy heels of her feet stacked on top of the phallic symbol that is her spikey stiletto would be right there before his eyes with each step she takes, but during the entire time she is prancing along in front of him, they are close, then farther away, then close again.

As she moves along above him, his eyes would ping-pong back and forth from one spike heel to the other, with him using the palms of his hands to hold up his weight while groveling along behind her. But his situation provides no opportunity to reach out and attain the desired physical contact with the girly prettiness of her lovely feet and sexy shoes – contact that he wants so badly. His desire for them typically peaks during this little activity, but alas - the whole time, the deliciously kinky spikey heels are so wonderfully presented but just out of reach!

Whenever she becomes ready to end the chase, not by giving him what he wants but simply by moving on to the next phase of the erotic game, she parades herself over to a high bar stool and plops her wonderfully curvy bottom onto it. She tugs on the leash attached to the collar around his neck as she beckons him to approach using her slender, long-nailed index finger. As he crawls toward her she points at the floor in front of her to indicate his rightful place at her feet…

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With him now seated in the proper position, she crosses one lovely leg over the other and extends one pretty foot, encouraging him to come and get it with his horny hands. But when he tries, a simple removal of her foot occurs by her pulling it away from him, effortlessly rejecting his advance. Or perhaps she gives him a quick taste of its loveliness, allowing him to touch it for a brief moment, only to take it away with a playful, girlish giggle.

Either way, the simple action of denying him what he desires sets a behavioral baseline for the actions of the wicked game to follow. As she teasingly takes her foot away and laughs at his helpless position, she might utter a sweet but corrective “Ah-ahh-ahhhhh!” in a taunting schoolgirl tone of voice. A series of playful taps on the cheek or swats on his cock with her teasy whip, perhaps accompanied by some scolding him for whatever she feels like, might emphasize her rejection of his advance too.

No matter which details she chooses to enact, this is the point where she transitions the evening’s fun into a wonderfully naughty teasing and rejection game she’s schemed up in her kinky, dominant mind.

After her initial rejection of his advance, he’ll be staring at her pretty foot all dressed up in its sexy shoe or boot, already wanting it quite badly, and he’ll be adoring and admiring the object of his desire that had just been offered to him – only to be teasingly removed from his reach. And somehow, the fact that the kinky shoe has just been used to put him down holds mysterious appeal for him…

If she has chosen to give him just a brief taste of being allowed to touch it, she might innocently ask him if he wants to touch it again as she uncrosses her leg and crosses the other one, again performing a bouncy-bouncy show with one pretty foot at the ankle, rolling it round and round to keep him completely mesmerized without barely any effort at all.

Given his all too predictable positive response, she’ll verbally reject his request, which might initiate a naughty little begging game if she desires to engage him in one. That particular activity could involve her coaxing more and more begging out of him, instructing him on every little detail of how she’d like him to do it. Then she’d just sit back and enjoy the predictable escalation of the tone and volume of his voice as she tells him no and denies him his prize – all while showing it off for him to torment him at the same time!

Or, instead of the verbal rejection, she can simply keep quiet, continuing the show but ignoring his pleas. This way is still a rejection of his desires, but it is performed without saying anything at all – which is sometimes even more erotic. She’d still be showing off her lovely high-heeled foot treats away from him but keeping it away from him, confusing his mind and senses, waiting for him to make a move toward them without being granted explicit permission. All of these decisions can be made on a whim, according to whatever feelings she has in the moment and whether she opts to be naughty or nice, wicked or wonderful.

Whatever she decides to allow, either directly or indirectly, will of course be obliged by him, as he reaches out with his hands to chase after the feminine goody she is offering and teasing him with.

But his approach would be purposely slow, so much so that it would afford her every opportunity to reject his advances again - which is actually what they both want, since it is part of the domination game. And so, if she wants to that is the very thing that she would choose to do!

Developing techniques around her rejection of his advances is the focus of this part of the kinky mind game, because doing so provides her with a number of choices of exactly how to perform it. It can be done simply by pulling her lovely foot away with a girlish giggle, or she can employ a slightly more aggressive technique where she uses one of her delectably wicked shoes to guide his hand away, gently or more forcefully.

She might use the top of her foot above the vamp to reject him, or push his hand away using the tips of her shiny, red-nailed tootsies peeking through the vamp. She could even lift the shoe upward and walk all over his pitiful male attempts at making advances on her unattainable femininity by using the sole of that wild footwear to shove his horny paw away from her precious feminine charms.

Her rejection of him would feed both of their desires as she repeats it over and over, with him trying and failing, again and again and again. He’d be enjoying the way she calmly and effortlessly shoots him down and she’d be taking great delight in the ease of her ability to do so. He might try again immediately after a rejection or pause for a moment after she puts him down (literally) and then come back for more. Either approach would serve to further empower her to make decisions in that moment as to the outcome of his attempts to attain his desired object.

As the game develops, she could opt to stay silent so she can watch him squirm, closely observing his helpless reactions to her rejection of him. Or she could playfully scold him some more for being a naughty boy after denying him, perhaps threatening to punish him for being so inept at worshipping her lovely feet and sky-high heels properly.

She’d be getting off on the fun as she toys with his mind using whatever diabolical tricks she can think up, employing each one as a kinky characteristic of this mentally cruel, sexually dominant control game.

The kinky, fetishistic attraction and rejection game could continue from here in a circular fashion, with her coaxing, coercing or demanding that he chase after her pretty feetsies and sexy shoesies, only to repeatedly reject him and deny him his prize, with her taking great delight in every moment of her deception of him. There could also be more face-tapping or dick-whipping with her small riding crop, scolding him for being so naughty and for having such a fetishistic interest and desire for her kinky shoes…

She’d be giggling and cooing and cackling like a wicked witch every step of the way as she breaks his will and turns him into a whimpering, whining, lovesick sex puppy! And despite his sexual frustration and erotic suffering, he would still be loving every single second of it as well…

All the while, even as the last remnants of his manhood disintegrate into a puddle of unsatisfied desire because she simply refuses to give him even a little bit of the high heel worship that he was promised, the both of them would be fully aware that it was SHE that initiated the scenario, she that baited and lured him into it, only to string him along and lead him on and on, round and round in unsatisfied, unfulfilled sexual circles.

Soon it becomes quite obvious that the whole thing was a setup, even as he falls over and over into her deceptive web of sexual betrayal. He was promised his treat, but alas, she has decided to reject him, repeating the cycle of mentally sadistic but softly dominant tease and denial over and over – possibly without ever granting him the privilege of being given even the slightest touch of her feminine goodies!

In the end, this is, of course, but one of many ways this naughty little dominant scenario can play out, with what I just described being a little more into the psychologically sadistic side of things. A more common approach would be to have the Dominatrix eventually give in to her submissive’s needs, with the reward for allowing her to tease and torment him so wickedly finally being given to him. As to what that reward would be, it might be to allow him to worship the spike heels that were the object of his undoing, or to worship her boots or bare legs, or something more explicitly sexual like eating her pussy or being made to shoot his goo all over her kinky shoes or boots!

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Re: Wicked High Heel Teasing Rejection Game

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2025 7:44 pm
by curioussub1284
Wow. I'm not even sure what to say here. I never thought much about feet or high heels before, but... even without this post having a narrative, exactly...

I couldn't help falling into your description, and you made it all sound so enticing and erotic...I...think I probably would be ok with experiencing something that for real.

Amazing writing, I could actually feel and smell the shoes and boots...I could feel the riding crop on my cheek... and the desperation of wanting more...

Re: Wicked High Heel Teasing Rejection Game

Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2026 2:03 pm
by DomTom
Wow!
Very erotic and dense writing. Makes me forget the first part of my nick.
Keep on teasing !

Re: Wicked High Heel Teasing Rejection Game

Posted: Sat Mar 21, 2026 5:06 pm
by treasure
Awesome teasing tale as always, Goddess Kitty, I've loved Your many stories for more than 10 years now. Thank You for sharing some of Your personal World with us.