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Heyo,
I am writing a tease which should be playable by everyone, so I would like to adapt to the user playing it as best as I can. I want to include some cbt as a punishment( as long as that's no limit) and I am struggling to find good alternatives tasks to do on a vagina.
I haven't found much in the forum and any perspective on it would be greatly appreciated.

Also for people with pain as a limit what are good punishments for you?

Thanks for taking the time

Flicking the clit or snapping a rubber band against it can be something similar. Different kind of pain, probably more like doing the same to the cockhead, but affecting a similar area and similarly intense. You could also just paddle or cane the vagina, just slapping it is probably too soft in comparison.

Yeah good point, in the end pain is pain.
It's not that common, no? There are so many ballbusting teases or porn but rarely any clit torture. Is this a hard limit for most of you and that's why it's so rare?

PurpleStripes wrote: Thu Oct 30, 2025 5:21 pm Yeah good point, in the end pain is pain.
It's not that common, no? There are so many ballbusting teases or porn but rarely any clit torture. Is this a hard limit for most of you and that's why it's so rare?

Good questions and hopefully you find some feedback that helps you.,
There's clit torture and generalized stuff like pussy flogging porn out there, so I'm not sure if it's just that you haven't found much of it yet. I think CBT is a hard limit for most guys, it was for me until I played around with estim and then got into the more traditional type CBT toy usage. I think outside of porn, generally women are less likely to share information, not just pictures, and are often less present in online forums/discords/etc. due to undesired male attention and thirsty behavior.

Since you are asking for creating a tease, I'll toss some ideas but hopefully you'll get some feedback from women with actual experience. Rubber band snapping, can be done lightly or harshly as someone wants but might be a bit much on a clit. Use a pen or pencil to flick the clit. Slapping. Flicking with finger. Ice play on the labia and near the clit. ..but look for some clit torture porn and aim for something a little less than the 'full brutal' types of torture, or at least something that can be reasonably controlled as a matter of force, which is generally doable for most types of male CBT too.

I'm not female and I don't have any statistics on how common it is. I would assume within the more experienced masochists it's probably not uncommon. CBT is also uncommon amongst all men but quite common within BDSM. There are very few teases for women on here and very few women active in the forums.

It might be worth looking for a suitable subreddit to ask this question too, or other sites like fetlife.

PG

PlayfulGuy wrote: Fri Oct 31, 2025 6:59 pm It might be worth looking for a suitable subreddit to ask this question too, or other sites like fetlife.

PG

True, I thought I would ask here first because I wanna cater it to the people on this site, but on a subreddit I will prolly get more opinions. I'll try that ty