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Hi all,

I'm into solo edging and ruining where the control is out of your hands (literally...). Below I have some ideas involving a vibrator. Let me know what you think and I would like to hear your suggestions/techniques!

1. Suspending vibrator
Lie on your back and suspend a vibrator with a string (or a shoelace, rope, anything) above your cock such that it just touches the frenulum. You can for example use a drying rack to suspend the vibrator from. Next, turn it on and try to relax your body. The thing is that when you move your body or your cock twitches (which will start to happen when you are getting close), the suspended vibrator will swing away and thereby eliminate the stimulation. This can be very frustrating and likely ruin your orgasm!

2. The 5-game
Lie on your back and fixate your cock to your belly with some rope/shoelace/string such that it cannot move. This game goes in stages where each stage is 5 seconds.
- In stage 1, put the vibrator on your frenulum for 4 seconds, and 1 second off. Repeat 5 times.
- Stage 2: 3 seconds on and 2 seconds off. Repeat 5 times.
- Stage 3: 2 seconds on and 3 seconds off. Repeat 5 times.
- Stage 4: 1 second on and 4 seconds off. Repeat 5 times.

If you edge, rest for 5 seconds and start again but now skip stage 1. If you again edge, start again and skip stages 1 and 2. If you did not edge, add a stage. In this way, you stay as close as possible to the edge and results in (theoretically...) endlessly riding the edge. The idea of the game is to reduce the stimulation when you are getting closer to orgasm which should make it easier to stay continously on edge. Of course, you can change the numbers to adjust the game to your body / cock sensitivity.

3. Helping with a HFO
Lie on your back and place a vibrator between your belly and cock, as close as possible to your balls. This gives very limited (but still some) stimulation, which eventually can lead to a (semi) ruined orgasm. You can try this when you have trouble getting a real HFO.

Remote-controlled vibrators are now popular, and they can even be pre-programmed patterns. You just need customizable vibration patterns. Program it to gradually build up to intense vibrations and then suddenly stop. You won’t know when the next wave will hit, keeping you on the brink. Then there is voice-controlled vibrator, use a vibrator that responds to sound, such as voice commands or even music. Let someone else decide when to speak or play music, controlling the vibrations and when they occur. Finally, there is the semi-automatic masturbator: you can put the masturbator in a way that stimulates you but isn’t easy to remove, and let it automatically give you oral sex, completely freeing your hands. Like the Lovebirdvibe's DarkKnight2 I tried recently, I bought it from lovebirdvibe.com. If you have an enormous banana, you will need to pull on it to prevent bottoming out and stalling the spin, but if you are medium / small it is completely hands free. I bought it cause i think how much you'll save on dinner dates!

Thanks, I like the idea of using (pre-)programmed patterns. I'm planning to look into buttplug.io to make this work. It would be nice to couple a device which detects if you are close to orgasm (body feedback) which can be used as input for the vibration pattern. I know there exists a commercial product by Maus-Tec but that device is crazy expensive if you ask me. Perhaps heart rate can be used, so if for example the heart rate goes over X bpm, stimulation stops or decreases. This then keeps you theoretically on constant edge (as is the intention of the product from Maus-Tec). Do you have any suggestions/ideas on making this work? I'll dig into it myself in the meantime!