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Cut me a little slack there Indigo...............as I said, I am new to this board. Perhaps I don't know the "better ways to advertise" -- but at least I'm willing to learn those ways if someone would offer the advice?

Gah man this is not some "guy looking for domme" forum god damnit!. I mean I have nothing against that people find each other here and play and tease and stuff, but its your first post god damnit. (like erik cartman... I hate that god damnit!)

Great way to make a new member feel welcome!
Hi Danny btw

Theres not much difference between these posts and posts such as:

Anyone play hardball?
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=2282

...I wonder if anyone is in the mood to play. ;)
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=1394

Hello boys
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=2366

The only difference is that this one is posted by a sub guy and the others were posted by dom girls.
Im not complaining about either, the posts from the girls are great and get this board really active and interesting but if they can post then why cant guys too?

To be honest Danny you probably wont have any luck with this post because of the girl/guy ratio here but your new and werent to know that.

give him a break!

Okay.............I get the picture. Here's where I'm coming from okay? I'm new to this ---you'll note I said that in my first post --- I read a few of these and found some to be 'advertising' (as Indigo put it) so I 'advertised' ............. That was wrong and for that I apologize profusely to those that I offended. So................I guess all I can do is take back my 'advertisement' and learn from those of you who have been on this forum for a long time. Perhaps after I've learned a little I'll be qualified to post again.

Again................my apologizes especially to those who responded. No offense intended at all. Again, I'm new to this forum and I trust that others have made the same mistake that I did.

Thank you CumHardy.............you said what I wanted to say but didn't think I was 'old enough' yet to say it. Sometimes the 'attitude of ownership' of public forums is puzzling. But at least I'm willing to try to understand. Again, my thanks to you for stepping up and saying what I wanted to say. It was kind of you.

cumhardy wrote:Great way to make a new member feel welcome!
Hi Danny btw

Theres not much difference between these posts and posts such as:

...

Yes there is!. Those lovely women contributed to this side first by posting and doing other things.

and again its nothing personal against Danny, maybe its just my frustration right now about beeing denied for one week. So appologizing to danny for stepping on his toes.

But its a bit anyoing when you see someone new to this site and the first post he writes is some kind of "guy/girl looking for a domme" thing.

Those few women around here deserve that guys at least try to make an effort and honestly if a women wants to play with someone then she will let you know about it.

RoniDev wrote:

cumhardy wrote:Great way to make a new member feel welcome!
Hi Danny btw

Theres not much difference between these posts and posts such as:

...

Yes there is!. Most of those lovely women contributed to this side first by posting and doing other things.

Hmm not really, ive seen quite a lot of Dommes posting these kind of things as their first post. I dont really want to pick out an example because it would sound like Im picking on one individual but it happens. I can understand people getting pissed off if a guy came on here once a month and posted the same thing each time without contributing anything else but as first post I say give them the benefit of the doubt.

Thank you Indigo............I appreciate the advise. Well taken too I might add. Again, to those who've been offended in some way my sincere apologizes. I will take your advise Indigo and check out the 'welcome' portion and post something a little less in the 'advertising' mode. I need to learn a little about this site -- and I clearly understand that -- then contribute to the community. I also understand that there are alway a few in the community who take possession of the forums and chat rooms through need(s) of control and frankly I think those people become quite obvious and are generally ignored. I am a very educated man and can spot those type of personalities very quickly. No hard feelings at all from me and thanks to those who stepped up and offered advise and support. I appreciate the kindness and understanding. If anyone wishes to offer me 'personal advise' please feel free to PM me. I have a lot to learn .......... always.