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Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 7:48 am
by DavidF
It seems to me, that people in IRC were somewhat surprised when I said I was a switch, and seemed to question my use of capital letters at the start of my name. :P (They all seemed to think I was a dom, quite off putting, actually. I admire you ladies even more now!)
Just wondering how common switch's are within this community.
Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 8:04 am
by Fenris

that depends are you talking about members or people viewing the site?
Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 10:34 am
by Cum_Slut_Sissy
I understand what you mean by the capital letters in the name can stand for dominance, however the only reason i chose for the capital letters in my name is because i tend to like things more or less perfect, i think i remember reading somewhere its like a form of OCD

Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 2:29 pm
by tzdndenied
Hi,
Guess everybody knows how i voted...submissive...didn't even have to think about it!
kristin
Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 11:58 pm
by bobbbliss
I marked switch but I identify as The Assertive Sub (see:
http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/take?id=1 ... 3708158422 )
But to be honest, I'm REALLY good at being a Dom because I know how to find the triggers that work for a particular sub, and I know that glorious feeling of totally committing to one's submission. My lover is an amazing submissive, and enjoys "being in charge" occasionally, but alas, she has to work at being a Domme, since she's really about 97% submissive.
Now if I met a bisexual woman who was 97% dominant, we'd BOTH be in trouble! *Wink*
Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:39 am
by Cider
all sub here! 99%. so how is 99% all you say? there is a margin of error in everything. i can Dom, but honestly hate it and feel awkward, submissive at heart, and in heaven beneath my Mistress.
Re: Dom, sub or switch?
Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 1:09 am
by zenlover
Variety is the spice...
I enjoy both, and have for a long time. Sensual dominance and submission though, no painful stuff...