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I am an experimenter. I like to see how to do things and to see if they work or not. I try very hard to be careful and safe. But, I do like to try things out. Helps me learn personally...helps me to add new things to my teases and keep them a little fresher. Being that I am working away from home and wife for extended periods of time, I've tried to use this period of time to learn some things that might further enhance our sexual relationship.

Lately, I've been trying to figure out prostate milking...and...milking in general.

In fact, I am sitting here with a very unsatisfied sensation in my balls and cock from a session tonight, after 30 days of not cumming. (I've been using CyberMistress to regulate both my masturbation opportunities and opportunities to ejaculate and/or orgasm. Takes some discipline; but it's worked better than other methods I've tried before.) I keep wanting to pee even though I just went.

I am working in a country where sex toys are illegal, and it is unwise to try to bring them in; so, everything is either homemade or natural.

I enjoy anal play, so the carrot I used tonight was not a problem for me, as it may be for some. I've used a dildo before, back home, and I ended with a huge stream of cum that I never even felt ejaculate from my body, and I got a pretty good amount, too. Using the carrot, I got a very small amount to dribble out after about 20 minutes of prostate massage. Weirdly, my penis shriveled to the size of a raisin and tried to climb back inside of me. So, it was messy, and it didn't seem to produce more than a minimal amount of cum. I know I was doing it right.

Any ideas on ways to improve the efficiency of this method? Remembering that toys - unless homemade or "household" are out of the question.

I had more success with a penis milking technique. With this technique, you bring yourself to the edge, then stop until the feeling just passes, then start up immediately and stop just when you bring yourself to the edge and let it pass. You do this repeatedly until finally, it begins to dribble out in a stream, but there is no feeling. You may squirt a little, but if you've stopped "on time" you won't find any feeling in the squirt. I was pretty successful with this and produced a pretty fair amount of cum. I did not have any orgasm and only minimal squirting (twice with no feeling).

I am interested if any one else has ever experimented with this...with or without a partner. I am interested in your personal experiences.

Thanks.

slavechylde wrote:I keep wanting to pee even though I just went.

Do you get this too? I thought it was just me. After wanking for extended periods of time I get a burning sensation when i pee and then it stays there and I keep needing to go to the toilet. why does this happen?


Anyway, back to your question. Ive never owned any toys and ive used carrots, fingers etc but not had much luck (usually makes me pee a bit when I prostate massage for too long... )
Anyway, the best method Ive found that works for me is self-fisting. Basically lube up your hand real good, and your arsehole too... i mean REALLY good. Imagine your trying to make a duck shadow puppet with your hand and slowly ease the tips of your fingers in. Be slow and gentle and start to push them in deeper. I didnt have to go all the way in (never got my hand in up to the wrist or anything) but when I get a bit furhter in the pressure usually makes cum start to dribble out.

Its usually a bit easier if you position your hand and then sit on it from above, seems to slide in easier.


GOOD LUCK!

I use a glass(pyrex) martini stir stick. It has a rounded knob like end about the thickness of a thumb and 12 in long. It is long enough that I can use it flat on my back hips raised to allow the cum dribbles to fall on my face or chest. Or I can go knee chest position and drip onto a plate for licking up later. Since I haven't orgasmed I find I can easily eat my drippings.

If I warm it in hot water prior to insertion there is a wonderful sensation as it slides in.

Since it is glass it cleans up real well with soap and water .

cumhardy wrote: Do you get this too? I thought it was just me. After wanking for extended periods of time I get a burning sensation when i pee and then it stays there and I keep needing to go to the toilet. why does this happen?

You have a need to pee because after you have an orgasm all your muscles relax. During sexual arousal they're much more tense. Also, during sexual arousal, most parts of the body are working overtime and processes are happening faster than normal...urine is being produced at a faster than normal rate.

The burning sensation is not normal and could be due to a UTI. Semen is not acidic. It's alkaline, so sperm cells can survive the acidic environment inside a woman and have a fighting chance at doing their duty. ;) That being said, alkaline substances can cause discomfort as well, but i'm not sure of the pH of pre-cum, or how long it would take for it to irritate the penis. It would likely have to be a long long time.

-L

Milking yourself is really about the right technique. It took me a while to figure out how it really works for me. Just to use an dildo or something similar and anal stimulation wont help to milk you. I could probably do that for hours and woulnt start to produce any sperm. But with stimulating the right spot it doesnt take much longer than a few minutes till I start to leak and it comes in sometimes impressive amounts. I also know the urge to pee when doing so. Well try to not cum for at least a week and then try again. Also as I said you have to find the right spot thats the trick on it and its not like that I'm getting any sexual relief at least not for long when milking myself. Its good to get some "steam" out of your balls, but its far from anything like an normal penis stimulation and an orgasm.

Lindsey wrote:

cumhardy wrote: Do you get this too? I thought it was just me. After wanking for extended periods of time I get a burning sensation when i pee and then it stays there and I keep needing to go to the toilet. why does this happen?

You have a need to pee because after you have an orgasm all your muscles relax. During sexual arousal they're much more tense. Also, during sexual arousal, most parts of the body are working overtime and processes are happening faster than normal...urine is being produced at a faster than normal rate.

The burning sensation is not normal and could be due to a UTI. Semen is not acidic. It's alkaline, so sperm cells can survive the acidic environment inside a woman and have a fighting chance at doing their duty. ;) That being said, alkaline substances can cause discomfort as well, but i'm not sure of the pH of pre-cum, or how long it would take for it to irritate the penis. It would likely have to be a long long time.

-L

Hmmm, well its not exactly a burning its just mor elike a feeling of needing to go... tbh, I do hammer it quite hard sometimes when I have a wank for long periods of time, I just put it down to friction.
Cheers Doctor L

Male ejaculate ranges from about 7.2-8 ph which while basic is not far from neutral. While the Acidic enviroment of the vagina can be as low as 4 ph.

Also remember during sex and arousal the plumbing closes off the urine channel and opens the channel from the testies and prostate. So while going to the bathroom after arousal is perfectly natural urinating during would be a sign of some sort of problem, and be cause to go see a Doctor.

Timshel wrote:Male ejaculate ranges from about 7.2-8 ph which while basic is not far from neutral. While the Acidic enviroment of the vagina can be as low as 4 ph.

Also remember during sex and arousal the plumbing closes off the urine channel and opens the channel from the testies and prostate. So while going to the bathroom after arousal is perfectly natural urinating during would be a sign of some sort of problem, and be cause to go see a Doctor.

Sorry but you are wrong the urge to pee is absolutly natural if you stimulate your prostate. Well more or less that happens when you overstimulate your prostate. Some men just cannot cum by stimulating their prostate thats also an fact and well its not really cumming anyways, cause there is no orgasm involved. Well it can be an very exciting feeling but its totally different from an orgasm by penis stimulation. I mean you dont even get hard when stimulating your prostate and the cum just begins to flow out of it after some time till you reach a point where there is not enough fluid anymore and if you then continue to stimulate your prostate then you will have some kind of contractions and you will begin to squirt. Its more or less the same that happens to some women who squirt when getting fucked.

It's not urine. continued stimulation of the prostate causes the prostate to conitue to produce it's contribution to the male ejaculate. A clear liquid.

<shrug> Not really looking to get into a debate here. Just adding information to the pot.

I'm not going into a debate here too. Just saying that when you stimulate your prostate long enough then you begin to squirt. You dont squirt by milking yourself it takes much longer and a much more intensive stimulation of your prostate. As I said some men cannot cum by prostate stimulation, so if he feels the urge to pee then he is already gone to far. He should have cummed a long time ago. So what he could do is to try to not cum for a week or two and try to milk himself again.

I've tried a few times but with very little success. I've been looking at some different toys that could be helpful, mainly the Aneros, which seems pretty cool. But it's a bit expensive so I think I'm just going to buy a simple, hard plastic, straight vibrator thing and try with that.

If anyone got any personal experience with the Aneros, please do share.

Lindsey wrote:The burning sensation is not normal and could be due to a UTI. Semen is not acidic. It's alkaline, so sperm cells can survive the acidic environment inside a woman and have a fighting chance at doing their duty. ;) That being said, alkaline substances can cause discomfort as well, but i'm not sure of the pH of pre-cum, or how long it would take for it to irritate the penis. It would likely have to be a long long time.

Timshel wrote:Male ejaculate ranges from about 7.2-8 ph which while basic is not far from neutral.

Ejaculate under 7.2 is considered acidic and is probably caused by obstruction of seminal vesicles which alkalize ejaculate. Ejaculate above 8 is considered too alkaline and is probably sign of infection.