Female Friendly guides/introductions to JOI
Posted: Mon Mar 01, 2021 4:56 am
Sometimes, my girlfriend wants to get me off without sex. In the past, this would just be her flashing me or putting on a little show for me while I jerk off. Recently however, I had my first "Jerk Off Instruction" session with her, where she told me how to stroke.
Obviously I really enjoyed this!
And she kinda liked it too, which has led to a few more sessions. Each session has gotten better and better. With some coaching, she's gotten to the stage where she will tell me how fast/slow to stroke, when to start/stop/edge and even deny/ruin me on the odd occasion. Really amazing but fairly vanilla.
Now I'm keen to go a little further and maybe add some more spicy stuff like CEI, CBT, Spanking, Anal, Feminization etc, but I would like to plant some seeds/ideas and see what she thinks. While we communicate quite well which is how I got her to give me Jerk Off Instructions in the first place, I'm a bit nervous of how she'll react if I tell her I want her to make me eat my cum, finger my ass or get punched in the balls.
I was thinking maybe if I could give her some websites/guides for how to give "JOI" instructions to checkout and then she might stumble across some slightly kinkier ideas and be keen to try. The only challenge here is that she really doesn't like porn. So I need some recommendations on sites that are not super visual porn sites, you know the ones that greet you on the landing page with 200 different pairs of tits.
Preferably sites that are light on visual porn, but would be more focused from a female perspective on how give your man jerk off instructions. If I give her a site filled with naked ladies/porn on the front page, she'll probably close it before reading any guides. Even Milovana which has given me 1000s of hours of fun I feel would be a little too much.
tldr;
Can anyone recommend some "Female Friendly" websites with guides for giving JOI instructions that might include some slightly kinkier ideas(CEI/CBT/ETC) with minimal porn.
Obviously I really enjoyed this!
And she kinda liked it too, which has led to a few more sessions. Each session has gotten better and better. With some coaching, she's gotten to the stage where she will tell me how fast/slow to stroke, when to start/stop/edge and even deny/ruin me on the odd occasion. Really amazing but fairly vanilla.Now I'm keen to go a little further and maybe add some more spicy stuff like CEI, CBT, Spanking, Anal, Feminization etc, but I would like to plant some seeds/ideas and see what she thinks. While we communicate quite well which is how I got her to give me Jerk Off Instructions in the first place, I'm a bit nervous of how she'll react if I tell her I want her to make me eat my cum, finger my ass or get punched in the balls.
I was thinking maybe if I could give her some websites/guides for how to give "JOI" instructions to checkout and then she might stumble across some slightly kinkier ideas and be keen to try. The only challenge here is that she really doesn't like porn. So I need some recommendations on sites that are not super visual porn sites, you know the ones that greet you on the landing page with 200 different pairs of tits.
Preferably sites that are light on visual porn, but would be more focused from a female perspective on how give your man jerk off instructions. If I give her a site filled with naked ladies/porn on the front page, she'll probably close it before reading any guides. Even Milovana which has given me 1000s of hours of fun I feel would be a little too much.
tldr;
Can anyone recommend some "Female Friendly" websites with guides for giving JOI instructions that might include some slightly kinkier ideas(CEI/CBT/ETC) with minimal porn.