jenapwnz wrote: Fri Oct 30, 2020 8:57 am
Hi, guys
I'm not exeprienced in long edging, so I just wanted to know some advices and tips. For instance I want to edging for long term 5-7 days (for me it's gonna be long) anyway, here are some questions:
How long per day should I edging?
Should I always watch porn when I edging?
Any tips or advices for better experience?
Are there any benefits from long edging?
Also please share your personal experience if you had it
Hey
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the following is from my experience with edging and might not be suitable for all. Everybody is different
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if you're not experienced with edging 5-7 days seems pretty long for me
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The short answer to your questions:
It's totally up to you. It's the same as with "normal" masturbation as long as you're not neglecting your life in favor of edging, all should be fine.
The long answer:
Having an orgasm after some time of edging is more intense and you're probably horny all day long if you edge and deny yourself for longer periods. That's what most people aim for when they edge. For going multiple days you'll need a lot of discipline to stop right before orgasm in the end first. If you train yourself to enjoy the pleasure of denial more than an orgasm it will get easier over time. You need also to learn how to detect the strength of your edge. Regularly edging over multiple days can shift the point of no return significantly, so one day you think you can easily back off from that orgasm but still a "false" thought let's you pass the point of no return. I think that this is pretty much a trial and error process. Over time you learn how close you can get in different situations. If you achieve a comfortable state of permanent arousal I think it's best to stay in this state for as long as possible and take small steps, like trying to hold out for another day and then another one and so on. Working towards a fixed date for your next orgasm is often too arousing or frustrating that it doesn't work out really well. Using erotic material is highly dependent on your mood and might change over time. If you think you can't handle porn at a time then use only your imagination.
My personal preferences/experiences:
My longest time in denial was about 25 days, starting with 15 days of no touch. With daily edging I can go around 10 days before I'm so horny that even a slight touch can make me orgasm. At the moment I think that that's my limit. Normally I go with 3-5 days of edging before orgasm, but then I can go easy even with a ruined orgasm
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I like to start a longer edging session as a game with someone else, because it's pretty difficult for me to not orgasm the first time.
When I edge I mostly don't have a fixed number of sessions. If I have time and something erotic comes to my mind I go for a fast edge. If I have more time, I start to research a little bit on the internet about my thought and edge while doing it. There is mostly a shift from porn to erotic stories the longer I edge.
The most notable benefit from edging for me is the better control about my arousal in general.
Hopefully that helps you a little bit,
Augustulus