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buddy system
Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 4:44 pm
by tigerpup
I am interested in doing teases along with other guys (or of course ladies are welcome too). If you im me (tigerpup_29@yahoo) and we are on together we can each do a tease (or even the same tease) checking in with im or even doing it on cam. This would give me (an you presumably) enough encouragement to get though the tease without cheating and, for those teases that don't end in orgasm, a little help in not just cumming immediately afterwords.
I find the teases much more fun when I don't cheat but often have trouble not cheating. And I don't just mean cumming (though this is the main problem :) ). In non-flash teases when it says stroke for 5 minutes before continuing its so easy to breeze on through. Anyway, if you are the same perhaps we can help each other out.
Anthony
Re: buddy system
Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 3:06 pm
by nomeuno
you're kidding right? say you're kidding, that just sounds gross. A "BUDDY" involved with my tease!? Not that there's anything wrong with it, but RU GAY?!
Re: buddy system
Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 3:10 pm
by nomeuno
Another thing, i noticed a lot of chics and maybe now guys are asking people to im their yahoo or hotmail or aol type addresses and i'm pretty sure it's just to gather other addresses or emails for spam... why can't they pm you here? be ware of this post he just joined yesterday.
Re: buddy system
Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 3:33 pm
by tigerpup
Wow. I didn't expect this sort of response. I just wanted a little extra encouragement not to cheat that's all. I guess its always good advice to be careful though. A pm here would be fine. Anyway, happy teasing.
Anthony
Oh, and I don't really like the word "buddy" either.
Re: buddy system
Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 8:06 pm
by trivium1234
[quote="tigerpup"]I am interested in doing teases along with other guys (or of course ladies are welcome too). If you im me (tigerpup_29@yahoo) and we are on together we can each do a tease (or even the same tease) checking in with im or even doing it on cam. This would give me (an you presumably) enough encouragement to get though the tease without cheating and, for those teases that don't end in orgasm, a little help in not just cumming immediately afterwords.
I find the teases much more fun when I don't cheat but often have trouble not cheating. And I don't just mean cumming (though this is the main problem :) ). In non-flash teases when it says stroke for 5 minutes before continuing its so easy to breeze on through. Anyway, if you are the same perhaps we can help each other out.
Anthony[/quote]
yuk! i do it with a girl on cam but a guy does seem a little gay................... fuk that
not to be picky but...
Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:42 pm
by tigerpup
I'm not really interested in who isn't interested in my suggestion but rather who is. So if you this my suggestion is "gross" or what have you, that's fine but I think it would be a more useful thread if the comments were more positive/helpful about either doing teases together or ways to help one not cheat.
Thanks.
A
Re: not to be picky but...
Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 11:25 pm
by Nikki
tigerpup wrote:I'm not really interested in who isn't interested in my suggestion but rather who is. So if you this my suggestion is "gross" or what have you, that's fine but I think it would be a more useful thread if the comments were more positive/helpful about either doing teases together or ways to help one not cheat.
Thanks.
A
It is probably better to ask for a private IM for this kind of question as it seems that some of people around here are a bit insecure about that sort of "play".
I think it is a fun idea .. good luck with it ;)
Nikki
Re: buddy system
Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:35 am
by nomeuno
It is probably better to ask for a private IM for this kind of question as it seems that some of people around here are a bit insecure about that sort of "play".
i don't think that because a man is not gay or into playing with other men it makes him insecure. That's quite a comment you make there. interesting.
Re: buddy system
Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 5:58 am
by Nikki
nomeuno wrote:It is probably better to ask for a private IM for this kind of question as it seems that some of people around here are a bit insecure about that sort of "play".
i don't think that because a man is not gay or into playing with other men it makes him insecure. That's quite a comment you make there. interesting.
I said "insecure about that sort of play", not insecure in general. My first thought was homophobic but I was trying to give you the benefit of doubt.
It wasn't meant to be an insult, it is obvious that his suggestion made you uncomfortable in some way, that is ok but he should be able to make a suggestion without feeling threatened or attacked for it.
Don't you think so?
Nikki
Re: buddy system
Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 10:29 am
by nomeuno
Well not exactly. Your assumption about homophobes and insecurities are incorrect, that's all. ;)
Re: buddy system
Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 8:29 am
by texturedshroom
I'm with Nikki on this one. If you weren't insecure you wouldn't have reacted that way... you would have either said "I'm not interested" or not replied at all.
Re: buddy system
Posted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 8:53 am
by dark
nomeuno wrote:Well not exactly. Your assumption about homophobes and insecurities are incorrect, that's all. ;)
No it is absolutely correct and if you guys don't stop blaming homosexuality I will get kinda angry

Just stay away from a topic if you don't have anything to add what is worth to read for others.
And tigerup asked me before he opened this thread and I told him I would expect some guys would act like that. He is right when he says that he wanted to know who is interested and not who is not interested.
(My personal view besides from being an Admin:
It's a shame, really a shame

To act like that on a site like this.)
Re: buddy system
Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 10:20 pm
by sabado
I am not gay, but think it is a good idea
Well done, tigerpup for being original and hopefully you find lots of buddies to have joint webteases with.