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Hey

well, I think that this is a pretty interesting question. From my experience there are no concrete tasks in general. This is heavily depending on the likes and limits of the participating doms/subs.
I'm giving tasks here in the forum for some time now and what one sub likes is absolutely off limits for another one.
As a general advice I would recommend to look through teases and collect ideas from them . Keep in mind that there is a person with certain likes behind each tease and if you look through some of them you might find some you like and some you don't get aroused at all. There you can see that it's problematic to create tasks completely without some background of the participants.

The most general rule that is loved by the most is the element of surprise. A task is the most fun if you don't know the end or if you're tricked into something you might regret.

But in general a good task is a task that is fun for both dom and sub and this can only work if you know something about them.
If you take it pure online without videos or calls you don't have to separate between dom man and dom woman also. Just let the sub decide on a person (real or anime/hentai etc) where pictures and/or videos are available and let the dom write the tasks in the name of the chosen person .

Augustulus

Welp, I've got some time on my hands, I'll start with ideas...

1) 90 minutes of edging/orgasm denial

2) Shibari challenge – try a rope-tie you’ve never tried before

3) Sensory deprivation, an exercise in trust.

4) Endurance testing – Sub must stand on their toes for a set length of time – or be hung in an uncomfortable position for that time.

5) Furniture challenge – Find a piece of furniture in each room that can be incorporated into BDSM (i.e. a bench converted to a spanking bench, a dining room table becomes the supporting player in a human buffet)

6) Sub holds icecubes in his/her mouth and the drool/melt combination trickles down their body as they stay in position.

7) Gag day – Sub remains gagged all day, yet must still find ways to communicate their wishes.

8) Furniture challenge part two – Sub acts as human furniture (i.e. a table, for the dom to rest their drink on or prop their feet on as they watch TV)

9) Cleansing ritual – Sub washes dom’s feet

10) Ten day whipping threshold – 10 minutes or 10 very hard lashes. Dealer’s choice.

11) Predicament bondage – sub must choose between pain and pleasure (i.e. nipple clamps tied to a fixed point that she must pull in order to position herself for a vibrator to stimulate her clit)

12) Body writing – Som and sub take turns writing on sub’s body. Whoever finds the most humiliating phrase wins.

13) Forced orgasms – roll a dice to see how long it goes on (multiply the roll by 10)

14) Limit stretching – Find something that’s not a hard no for the sub, but one they’re very tentative about and explore the edges of that, see if they can push through and find pleasure in what they once feared.

15) Reddit story telling – (sub goes on a reddit forum and tells a story of one of your sessions from their point of view)

16) Tickle torture

17) Cane/flogger/whip/spoon/etc – find six instruments of spanking/whipping. Roll a die once. Whichever number corresponds with the instrument is the one you use. Roll it again for number of lashes.

18) Tit torture – dealer’s choice as to method

19) Craft day – build a sex toy out of materials you have around the house (cut up a belt to make a cat o’ nine tails, create a bondage board out of spare plywood, etc. – do this together)

20) Twenty day whipping threshold – 20 minutes or 20 very hard lashes. Dealer’s choice.

21) Blindfold and pinwheel

22) CNC (depending, of course, on your own limits)

23) Cum play – store some up and incorporate it into food (it makes for a great margarita liner for the salt), make the sub wear it, rub their face in it)

24) Watersports (again, depending on your own limits)

25) Anal hook

26) Thumbtack bra

27) Unusual insertions – household objects that normally would not go inside a human body find that they can, in fact, fit there.

28) Figging

29) Nuru massage

30) Thirty day whipping threshold – 30 minutes or 30 very hard lashes. Dealer’s choice.