Milovana.com

Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on the final stage of my next webtease and, to try something new, I added some chastity options.

Personally, I have absolutely no experience with chastity. I have never tried it myself, so I feel fairly insecure about giving other people instructions about it.

My game includes four different kinds of chastity:
1. 24 hour chastity after denial
2. chastity after orgasm
Each with the ChastiKey app and without. (In the beginning of the game, I ask the player whether they use ChastiKey.)

Chastity 1 is pretty simple and I think I figured that one out already. As for ChastiKey, I just created a fixed lock for 24 hours. Is this the best way to do it with ChastiKey?
Without ChastiKey, I just tell the player to stay locked up for about 24 hours. I realize that this is not ideal because chastity doesn't really go well with self control but I dont really know any alternative. Is there a better way to lock the player up without the ChastiKey app?

Chastity 2 is where I'm struggling. I don't know which lock I should create in ChastiKey. I assume a variable lock but there are so many options and I have no idea what "you guys" like. It would be amazing if someone could tell me what settings are good for locking someone up after the game.
Without ChastiKey, this only gets more complicated. What instructions should I give the player after the game? For how long should I cage him? And is there anything else I need to consider?

I could also simply ask the player to download the ChastiKey app but I'm not sure how popular it really is among cage users.

I'm feeling kinda lost with this and I would appreciate any help from people who know more about chastity than I do. ^^
(My specific questions are highlighted bold.)

Maybe you should try the options yourself and see how you feel about them Even without a cage, just use a mental chastity cage like I used iN Faux Choices.

All I know about from my chastity teases I've never felt the need to use any external control.

If you're created a strong fantasy and players want to engage in it, they will obey the characters you've created. Obviously so long as it's a reasonable request - one of my players might be devoted to Xia, but if she says 'lock up for a year then ill see you again' I doubt many would bother.

If they aren't interested, they weren't going to anyway whatever you put in.

Shattered wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 5:34 pm Maybe you should try the options yourself and see how you feel about them Even without a cage, just use a mental chastity cage like I used iN Faux Choices.

Interesting idea but I don't think I'd have the mental strength required for that.
Besides, I'm looking for some tips from people who are rather experienced with chastity. The way I feel probably isn't the same as someone who uses a cage regularly.

Shattered wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 5:34 pm If they aren't interested, they weren't going to anyway whatever you put in.

Hm, that's a good remark. My characters are hardly as dominant as most here, so that might be a problem.

Morexis wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 6:05 pm

Shattered wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 5:34 pm Maybe you should try the options yourself and see how you feel about them Even without a cage, just use a mental chastity cage like I used iN Faux Choices.

Interesting idea but I don't think I'd have the mental strength required for that.

Sounds like you should play one of my teases, have the choice taken away from you. Like I said, Faux Choice has a 'mode' for if you don't even own a chastity belt. Sounds like its for your own good

Morexis wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 6:05 pm

Shattered wrote: Mon Dec 16, 2019 5:34 pm If they aren't interested, they weren't going to anyway whatever you put in.

Hm, that's a good remark. My characters are hardly as dominant as most here, so that might be a problem.

I'll leave that to you, but you don't need to be a dominant character to establish control

As a chastity wearer, here is my advice. Thanks for asking for advice to get a better perspective.

There is a huge difference in controlled time vs just wearing the device. When you wear the device, there is the physical sensation of being locked which is interesting in itself. However, when you lock the device and also lock away the key via some method out of your control, you just added the mental aspect of chastity which can be way more compelling than the physical side of chastity. Combine the two and it is a very powerful physical AND emotional experience. Can drive you crazy, which is exactly the point. So, clearly I would opt for some method to have the system control the lock time.

Chastikey is a good app. I have used it a few times and set times are good, but the added element of chance is a real play on the mental part. Variability in the time is always more fun to me. So I would encurage you to have some element of variability in the session you set up.

As an alternative, Emlalock is another chastity site that I think you can program times for others to use. This site is web based and does not need an app, but can be accessed via a smartphone web browser. I have used this site as well and it is pretty good.

My opinion for what it's worth...and thanks for all the work!

Hi,

Bit late but seeing I enjoyed the previous tease I figure i'd give my 2 cents.
The Chastikey app is a nice addition, it allows for that extra barrier to get to your keys though it does require some setup.
I'd personally, at the end of a tease with no person managing the actual lock, would prefer to just go for a fairly basic one. Maybe add some yellow cards or 2 freeze cards for a bit more of a 'crap' feeling but the double up and reset cards are evil :)
The chastikey also has a discord attached with a mountain of locks and people creating them for more advice and examples. They are also pretty friendly people as a bonus.

As for non chastikey users. Well, I've used a mug with ice a a bit of a random addition to my time. Freezing a key in a water filled mug at least forced me to have to wait after i was 'done'.Kneeling and staring at the mug, willing it to melt faster. And in case of emergency, there's still the option of shattering the mug.

Not sure how much help this was, in the end, chastity is a bit of a personal flavour thing. Plastic cage? tThen the max time you can wear it really goes down compared to a metal one. Some people consider 5 days an eternity, others shrug at anything below 2 weeks :)