Getting too excited before masturbation.
Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2019 6:55 pm
Hey everyone!
I wanted to talk with someone about it and I think milovana is the best board to do so :)
Like you read in the title, I am getting too excited before masturbation. This might sound weird but let me explain what do I mean by that.
So, since I can't really remember, I've been struggling with being too excited before I am planning to spice my wanking session. When I am not planning wanking, like I am just going with my day and just before I am going to sleep I decide to masturbate to something vanilla (like lesbian porn) everything is normal. By normal, I mean I don't "suffer" any of soon listed nuisances.
When for example I change porn category for something out of my comfort zone (transexual, JOI, gonewildaudio) my body just becomes shaky, like I am shaking every couple of seconds (like I would start to get cold). It is manageable, because it most of the time just stops when I start masturbating.
When I actually plan what will I do this evening, it's starting to mess with me harder. First symptoms appear like 2/3 hours before. It's like I am starting to stress, I can't really focus, I can't eat, I have urge to poop (not diarrhea, but I need to poop badly). Strength of this depends on what I planned. If I wanted to do some anal (which I consider as the most "crazy" one because of need for preperation), urge to poop is comical, even tho I would poop twice this day, I need to do it one more time like 80% of times. When I plan to play a certain webtease I find really hot, it would still stress me.
It's frustrating, I am not masturbating that often, I guess 2 times per week on average. Most of my faps lately have been the "spicy" ones, since I do not really want to masturbate to vanilla stuff when I have all of different ways to enhance my pleasure (clothespins, maybe a shoelace). I am into anal, I love to watch it on porn and I enjoy doing it, but to be fair the only way to do it is not planning it till I am just before my evening shower and I'll decide to do it. This way I don't have much time to stress/get excited about it so the symptoms will just occur for couple of minutes before I start (this is not 100% working strategy, since my brain sometimes can trigger the urge to poop literally seconds after I decide to do anal...). This also doesn't satisfy me as much, because I am not properly horny.
Symptoms often just go away when I am starting to masturbate. I stop shaking, I can focus and I overall feel much better. But you know, when doing anal you would rather be clean (not getting into details).
Clueless about anything that might help me. I suppose I am just overexcited and symptoms appear to be just like ones I feel when actually stressed (like before important exam) and it's not really stressing. I can't find the issue. Anyone of you guys have this weird condition? Maybe something similar? Did you manage to overcome it?
I wanted to talk with someone about it and I think milovana is the best board to do so :)
Like you read in the title, I am getting too excited before masturbation. This might sound weird but let me explain what do I mean by that.
So, since I can't really remember, I've been struggling with being too excited before I am planning to spice my wanking session. When I am not planning wanking, like I am just going with my day and just before I am going to sleep I decide to masturbate to something vanilla (like lesbian porn) everything is normal. By normal, I mean I don't "suffer" any of soon listed nuisances.
When for example I change porn category for something out of my comfort zone (transexual, JOI, gonewildaudio) my body just becomes shaky, like I am shaking every couple of seconds (like I would start to get cold). It is manageable, because it most of the time just stops when I start masturbating.
When I actually plan what will I do this evening, it's starting to mess with me harder. First symptoms appear like 2/3 hours before. It's like I am starting to stress, I can't really focus, I can't eat, I have urge to poop (not diarrhea, but I need to poop badly). Strength of this depends on what I planned. If I wanted to do some anal (which I consider as the most "crazy" one because of need for preperation), urge to poop is comical, even tho I would poop twice this day, I need to do it one more time like 80% of times. When I plan to play a certain webtease I find really hot, it would still stress me.
It's frustrating, I am not masturbating that often, I guess 2 times per week on average. Most of my faps lately have been the "spicy" ones, since I do not really want to masturbate to vanilla stuff when I have all of different ways to enhance my pleasure (clothespins, maybe a shoelace). I am into anal, I love to watch it on porn and I enjoy doing it, but to be fair the only way to do it is not planning it till I am just before my evening shower and I'll decide to do it. This way I don't have much time to stress/get excited about it so the symptoms will just occur for couple of minutes before I start (this is not 100% working strategy, since my brain sometimes can trigger the urge to poop literally seconds after I decide to do anal...). This also doesn't satisfy me as much, because I am not properly horny.
Symptoms often just go away when I am starting to masturbate. I stop shaking, I can focus and I overall feel much better. But you know, when doing anal you would rather be clean (not getting into details).
Clueless about anything that might help me. I suppose I am just overexcited and symptoms appear to be just like ones I feel when actually stressed (like before important exam) and it's not really stressing. I can't find the issue. Anyone of you guys have this weird condition? Maybe something similar? Did you manage to overcome it?
