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Hi there,

I was just curious to know how is female chastity seen or felt. Is it as “popular” as male chastity?

Being a male, chastity provides an extraordinary sense expansion, derived from orgasms being frustrated and getting constantly teased and denied. The idea of feeling submissive and devoted to your dominant part takes you to a new level of self discovery and understanding that transcends yourself or your own needs.

But how is it for women that fantasizes to have their orgasms controlled?

Is there any woman around this forums that could share a bit a about it?

What is the fantasy behind it? Who are the actors in that fantasy and their role?

How does that frustration feel in a body doted with multiple and intense senses?

Would the fantasy be enhanced if chastity is enforced by a male? Or perhaps a female dominant presents more arousal and excitement?

How are the female chastity devices used on a daily routine? Are they really practical to prevent orgasms? How is cleaning? Moving and sitting around?

What other fantasies/fetishes come a long with being in chastity from a women perspective? For men for example, there is sometimes feminization or doing chores, being naked, humiliation, ruined orgasms, etc.

Ok, any thoughts would be fascinating to read.

Cheers

erotusmaximus wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2019 4:24 am Hi there,

I was just curious to know how is female chastity seen or felt. Is it as “popular” as male chastity?

Being a male, chastity provides an extraordinary sense expansion, derived from orgasms being frustrated and getting constantly teased and denied. The idea of feeling submissive and devoted to your dominant part takes you to a new level of self discovery and understanding that transcends yourself or your own needs.

But how is it for women that fantasizes to have their orgasms controlled?

Is there any woman around this forums that could share a bit a about it?

What is the fantasy behind it? Who are the actors in that fantasy and their role?

How does that frustration feel in a body doted with multiple and intense senses?

Would the fantasy be enhanced if chastity is enforced by a male? Or perhaps a female dominant presents more arousal and excitement?

How are the female chastity devices used on a daily routine? Are they really practical to prevent orgasms? How is cleaning? Moving and sitting around?

What other fantasies/fetishes come a long with being in chastity from a women perspective? For men for example, there is sometimes feminization or doing chores, being naked, humiliation, ruined orgasms, etc.

Ok, any thoughts would be fascinating to read.

Cheers

Well as far as I know and heard it's a bit different for them. The urge for orgasms isn't that big as for males. You can probably also see that in the daily behaviour. Women tend to masturbate much less (afaik most of them once per week at max) then men and some of them even don't masturbate at all. Of course there are women out there which tend to do it more often but I guess that's nothing compared to the average man.
Female chastity also doesn't restrict getting aroused as it does for men. I mean you can still cum inside a chastity cage and same probably goes for women so it's more a psychological thing. As a male myself I can't tell you about the exact feeling and whether it actually matters as much as for men. But I guess not feeling the chastity cage when you are aroused as men do it probably doesn't make that much of a physical difference however there is a psychologial one because you "can't touch" yourself unless someone else allows you too.

When it comes to Tease and Denial it's kinda the same afaik. I think it is more intense for men but if you know how to get your woman going it's probably also very frustrating for them. Problem is men just have a bigger urge and additionaly they lose interest when they cum right? So the counterpart to this is men being more and more submissive when they don't get to cum. I think the urge for women to cum in general is smaller and doesn't show that much. Afaik they enjoy general pleasure without and orgasm much more than men do. I've seen a graph once where it tried to display the feeling of pleasure for men and women and women just have a kinda constant increase to it during stimulation while men tend to stay at very low compared to women until they finally cum which then just shoots straight up. Also explains why women moan more often and why it they look like they are cuming even though they aren't (like shaking, uncontrolled body movement, eye movement etc.). However it is still something that you can make them want especially over a longer time span and of course tease and denial is relevant for them too.

I am not a female either, but i think the main reason for it to be not that popular is that they are not as practical as male devices.
Apart from piercing the lips together (which is pretty extrem for my taste) i am not aware of any other form of female chastity than those huge stiff metal belts. They look uncomfortable, maintaining hygiene seems pretty hard, going to the toilet with those things seems to be not pleasant too. And of course of their size, clothing choices are very limited if you want to keep your fetish secret from the public. If i would put my male mind with my fetishes in a female body i would probably get very aroused by the thought of female chastity but would never actually act on it, because it is so highly impractical. GodDragon made some good points too.

And i am aware there are similar male devices and males actually wearing them. But for me they were never an option and i think that is the case with the majority of people with this fetish.

Check out https://edgingspace.bdsmlr.com/
Lots of photos with captions regarding female denial and there seem to be plenty of female (and some trans) followers that write in fairly frequently. My favorite part about it is that it takes a very real-world approach, rather than the over-the-top abusive Dom you see so often in mainstream slave porn.

Thanks a lot guys, it really helped me get some idea about the subject. I guess if there was a suitable female chastity device the experience could be transposed, but so far is more a psychological thing with different game rules goal-wise. I mean, not just pursuing that single glorious orgasm.

Hopefully a woman will share us some thoughts as well.

Women are already in figurative chastity, thanks to society, so I believe there is less interest in physical chastity because of that. Also, I know many women in their 50's who have never had an orgasm. Can you show me the same for men?

Consider it another way, men are taught that their sexuality is "out of control" or "dangerous" or turns them into "animals" so they are sold the idea that they NEED chastity in a different way than women.

Thank you AliceInBondageLand, I’m very happy to read the first woman point of view on the matter. Thanks for sharing.

off topic question guys. can i ask a girlfriend to wear one for me(if i were her master), coz i dont want her to cheat on me while shes away or somethg


PS: i think it would be the end of the relationship

MilanWindictive wrote: Thu Mar 21, 2019 4:02 pm off topic question guys. can i ask a girlfriend to wear one for me(if i were her master), coz i dont want her to cheat on me while shes away or somethg


PS: i think it would be the end of the relationship

A relationship is always about talking to each other. Asking her is not the same as demanding her to. If you do it the right way you can always find out whether she would be fine with it or not. Whether she considers it a turn on etc.

Of course if you phrase it wrong it might sound like you really don't trust her. Chastity in relationships should not be a matter of trust but a matter of play and control. If you can't really trust your partner then you don't have the right partner for you.

GodDragon wrote: Thu Mar 21, 2019 7:23 pm If you can't really trust your partner then you don't have the right partner for you.

nicely said !

AliceInBondageLand wrote: Mon Mar 11, 2019 10:15 pm Women are already in figurative chastity, thanks to society, so I believe there is less interest in physical chastity because of that. Also, I know many women in their 50's who have never had an orgasm. Can you show me the same for men?

Consider it another way, men are taught that their sexuality is "out of control" or "dangerous" or turns them into "animals" so they are sold the idea that they NEED chastity in a different way than women.

Damn, Alice. Hittin us with some hard truths here

I find that female chastity devices look really big and cumbersome. Maybe psychological teasing works better. I have met a girl who was into denial. I think it's hot as hell.

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Damn, Alice. Hittin us with some hard truths here

I find that female chastity devices look really big and cumbersome. Maybe psychological teasing works better. I have met a girl who was into denial. I think it's hot as hell.
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I've had a lot of great results with piercings and locks or shield style devices instead of belts for women... you cannot prevent PLEASURE but you sure can prevent penetration.

As the name implies, in females, most fantasy scenarios are NOT about preventing masturbation, albeit it is the net result of the original purpose, but is to prevent sex ..as in slave girls etc.... when the Master or Mistress are absent, or where slaves are transported and their chastity may be endangered along the way.

Here ( for example) a girl is being sold and is certified as a virgin. Only her Mistress after purchase can remove it.

clip and gallery https://www.boundheat.com/gallery/mistress-of-souls-2



and later of course is enjoying her new property to a full extent

An interesting concept of female tease and chastity

Are you only interested in chastity or is female orgasm denial in general interesting for you?