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Hiya boys,

I was thinking of starting a new tease. But, because of the feedback i have been getting i thought i might do a little research before i do it so i know what to include in it.

Now, my style is lots of edging and lots of cock and ball torture, there is no way i am changing those two things. I was thinking of including anal, and i was wondering how many of you guys actually own a dildo or buitt plug, or have something to shove up your ass. Also, will you actually do anal stuff or will you just skip it?

Because as you may know, it really pisses me off when boys dont follow instructions

Also, what toys would you like to see in a tease? Such as ice, sissy stuff like panties etc etc etc.

Thanks for any help you can give me, the more help i get the better the tease will be!

P.S. I dont want any posts saying "Your teases are the greatest", i would just like to see this thread dedicated to constructive criticism to improve my teases.

I do not own any dildos or plugs, but i will use something from the house if instructed. I personally like the style of edges and cbt. Love icy hot(or tiger balm). I also am a very big fan of cock and ball bondage and small penis humiliation. The idea of being denied because of penis size is sooo freakin' hot. Hope I helped with your next tease :)

Thanks for starting off the topic brown868, i really appreciate it Also, welcome to the forums.

I forgot to say.... To all of the Milovana moderating team (Seraph0x, Alpahde5, Dark and Tease_O_Phile), can you pretty please contribute to this topic , because my next tease is all about you baby

Ok I have also been a sucker for the cbt....and agree don't remove it, in fact add more....for me clothes pegs, ropes, weights, the icy hot all amazing...on the sissy side the more humilating the better..ever made a guy go around wearing saran werap (cling film) for a day and having to hold any, needs in until till beyond desperate!!....ok yeah so been done to me lol.....didlos and plugs are a must....especially if forcing a sub to milk himself with out touching self.....and the last one which alot of guys quiver away from has always got to be the forced eating if given any kind of chance of allowing any fluid out with it be ruined through milking or through allowing pleasure, always should be followed up by humiliation.....oh yeah and what about if a guy hasn't got a chastity belt for the tease need to think of improvisations ~s~....hope the input is helpul Mz_Teneale

Mz Teneale, thank You for asking. For me, teases are mostly visual. The words and direction of the tease are important of course. i usually find myself drawn to the ones where the reader is tricked or drugged into being captured and then controlled. The visuals that best work are barely clothed Women like satin panty shots. Close ups to focus on, like panty covered ass and crotch pics, feet and legs. With the foundation set up, i find that i am most inclined to follow all instructions given whenever possible. That said, i do own a variety of plugs and/or anal toys that i have and would use again, of course. i do find some of the cbt tough to perform, i mean, really whacking my balls hard is tough to do. my mind just seems to prohibit me from really beating on myself. The bondage stuff is much easier to comply with. i hope You find this helpful to Your thread.

I have to say that I'm on the lighter end of the T&D spectrum... I'm not really into pain or humiliation, although some cock/ball bondage is fun

Any anal play I've engaged in is fairly tame, but I've used small bullet vibes in the past.

For me, T&D is about the loss of control, the ultra-hightened sexual pleasure and need and the build up to a potentially amazing orgasm at an unknown time. I get into both the visual and verbal portions of the tease, and love to be reminded about how horny and helpless I am. I tend to prefer the teases with story lines of sorts (i.e., with more than just, "okay now edge and click continue... now edge again and click continue.... etc.).

I've tried my hand at teases in the past (and I'm working on one now), but you can check out my style in classic tease #460: Caught red handed...

Hope that helps

tease_o_phile

MY personal preferences for being teased:

Dislikes: anything anal, ice, clothespins (I will twist or pinch myself to simulate clothespins but haven't found any pins or clamps that I can tolerate), icy-hot, small dick talk not all that exciting to me.

Likes: verbal humiliation (esp for being/doing something stupid), will smack the hell out of my balls or ass or anywhere else with ruler/wooden spoon, forced sucking, exercise - jumping jacks, pushups, etc - gets the blood flowing, shoelaces, fleshlight, lots of edging, panties, feminization, enforced nudity, body positioning (kneeling, etc), ruined orgasms, key-holder scenarios.

But that's just me. I'm so vanilla

From my perspective, there should always be plenty of teasing and it should build up and calm down so that it creates and reduces desire.

I am not massively into CBT as it really does hurt too much but am definitely into bondage. It appears that I can endure more pain if it slowly builds up than if it is sudden and sharp.

I also like to have lots of props as this helps build the feeling and sensations of being under your control.

Bring on the butt plugs and dildo's but always suggest some other items you would like people to use instead which are household items.

Clothes pegs, ice, panties and stockings are also massive hits and really add to the tease.

On a final note what is icy hot and what is the UK equivalent.

Keep up the good work, your endeavours are appreciated more than you think !

well some of us may have hemmorhoids

I just can say what tease_o_phile already said. And i already wrote that i would love a tease from you without CBT. Maybe i like CBT when a woman do this to me in reality. But hey as a submissive i have to say just do what you want we want no choices

The only point i have: You spoke about anal. I Have to think about your story Keep in mind that self-milking (prostata massage) does not work when you do it alone. Ok sometimes this works but i read from a lot of guys who tried it and failed(me too). I mean i would love to make this experience but it seems that i have to wait for a woman who fucks me hard

I have been forced to stand there realtime in front of a Mistress and bend over a desk and milk myself while she sat there doing absolutely nothing....your right it doesnt always work Dark, but even that is humiliating. If it did work on the occasions i was ordered to do this i then had to 'clean' it up myself also. So i think it takes experience as a sub to know when you are hitting the right spot to milk yourself..well thats my experience anyways ~s~

dark wrote:I just can say what tease_o_phile already said. And i already wrote that i would love a tease from you without CBT. Maybe i like CBT when a woman do this to me in reality. But hey as a submissive i have to say just do what you want we want no choices

Yep, you decide. That's the point of it.

dark wrote:The only point i have: You spoke about anal. I Have to think about your story Keep in mind that self-milking (prostata massage) does not work when you do it alone. Ok sometimes this works but i read from a lot of guys who tried it and failed(me too).

It's definitely possible, want a demonstration? If you want an easy way, get an Anaeros (or similar prostate massager). I didn't try those yet, but they are supposed to do exactly that.

konaf wrote:On a final note what is icy hot and what is the UK equivalent.

I think Bengay is a brand that does something similar. Also, have you tried a pharmacy? I think in Germany you can also get it as Icy Hot. It's sold a a pain reliever cream. (Oh, sweet irony.)

seraph0x wrote:

dark wrote:The only point i have: You spoke about anal. I Have to think about your story Keep in mind that self-milking (prostata massage) does not work when you do it alone. Ok sometimes this works but i read from a lot of guys who tried it and failed(me too).

It's definitely possible, want a demonstration? If you want an easy way, get an Anaeros (or similar prostate massager). I didn't try those yet, but they are supposed to do exactly that.

Of course you are right, but who has one of these toys? Me not

i have to say your current style is working pretty good, but personally i am not turned on by self anal, or such things as like sticking my own finger up my but like some teaes require. also, i dont know aboyt the rest of you, but im not the only person in my household, so searching around the house for something odd to stick up my but wont really work either, but i do like the idea of ice, cause its redily available and anyone can get it

Hmm, I've done a bit of research.

Here are three major brands of pain relief cream and their active ingredients:

Icy Hot: Methyl Salicylate and Menthol
Bengay: Methyl Salicylate 30%, Menthol 10%, Camphor 4%
Metholatum Deep Heat: Active ingredients are Menthol (58.8mg/g) and Methyl Salicylate (127.4mg/g)

Another thing to note that the most popular Bengay is called "Bengay Ultra Strength", so if you use that, maybe you want to start with a low dosage.

Personally I've never experimented with this stuff, but this account from some poor vanilla guy accidentally putting quite a bit of it on his Wang Wang* really got me curious to try:

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/36402235.html

Maybe his pain threshold isn't so high, but that sure sounds like quite a trip. And the fact that it's not immediate is actually pretty cool for the webtease environment anyway, because it pretty much solves the self-discipline issues you have when trying to hit your own balls for example.

* 94% of Americans believe that alternative names for your penis are funny. No, no, actually I made that up.

Update: Here you can order IcyHot in Germany: http://www.bakas24.de/shop/