Orgasm ruination, and the art of it.

[Xalova]

Wait.. is this even a word?

Aaaaaanyways...

I want to talk about the art of ruining an orgasm. And i need help.

Not because I can't ruin my own orgasm because of willpower, no. But if I do, it just does'nt do the trick for me. I mean.. sure. It's ruined and all, but isn't the key-thing that after the orgasm of one is ruined that said specimen will be frustrated as if no orgasm ever happened?

Cause.. you know, it isn't like that for me. It just kinda feels like a full blown Orgasm to me.

Maybe i am doing it wrong even. Look. When I ruin my orgasm, yea, I usually tip myselfe over the edge. I feel kinda inner contractions (not any visible) and then after some time (could take up to 5 secs, idk) I'd eventually cum. And that is kinda an intense orgasm. But different. Still an orgasm tho, and i dont feel ANY frustrated after that.

If someone is more experienced in this Subject, I'd like to know what im doing wrong. I want to be frustrated after an orgasm from me is ripped away.

Thanks in advance tho!

[GodDragon]

Wait.. is this even a word?

Aaaaaanyways...

I want to talk about the art of ruining an orgasm. And i need help.

Not because I can't ruin my own orgasm because of willpower, no. But if I do, it just does'nt do the trick for me. I mean.. sure. It's ruined and all, but isn't the key-thing that after the orgasm of one is ruined that said specimen will be frustrated as if no orgasm ever happened?

Cause.. you know, it isn't like that for me. It just kinda feels like a full blown Orgasm to me.

Maybe i am doing it wrong even. Look. When I ruin my orgasm, yea, I usually tip myselfe over the edge. I feel kinda inner contractions (not any visible) and then after some time (could take up to 5 secs, idk) I'd eventually cum. And that is kinda an intense orgasm. But different. Still an orgasm tho, and i dont feel ANY frustrated after that.

If someone is more experienced in this Subject, I'd like to know what im doing wrong. I want to be frustrated after an orgasm from me is ripped away.

Thanks in advance tho!

Well, there is a different between just taking your hands of and having no stimulation at all and just experiencing a truly ruined orgasm. A truly ruined one has no real pleasure and you probably can't call it orgasm anyway too. The cum just dribbles out, like no squirting and no contraction at all. A lot of edging preemptively and then take a pause to calm down, afterwards as few stimulation as possible to tip you over should do it. Like only one finger or something like that.

[Sexless Dummy]

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[SethK]

Don't know if you'd call this a ruined orgasm or not. Sometimes I can cause the cum to dribble out when I super excite my dick and manage to just open the PC muscles and let the prostate drain. It will happen sometimes when I edge repeatedly and really build the excitement. I'll stroke myself over the edge, and can even keep stroking, while resisting the reflexive pumping of a normal orgasm. It's sort of 1 long, firm contraction of the prostate pushing the cum out instead of in spurts. It's not exactly unpleasurable, as it only happens when I reach 100% maximum arousal and my dick is raging rock hard.