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Hello everyone, in a few weeks, Im going to visit a domme for the First time irl, Any advice?

Know yourself and communicate.

Know your soft limits and know that they WILL be pushed.

Know your HARD limits and when to speak up.

Conceptually, you are there for her. Okay, so she's TECHNICALLY a hooker but as far as the moment is concerned you are there for her. Keep that in mind. Don't wait, offer. Don't suggest, beg. The more you give to her, the more she will have to work with.

Lastly, and this depends on you/the situation/and the Domme, but I'd say maybe don't be perfectly behaved 100% of the time. Getting in trouble a little bit can make the situation more enjoyable, more... spicy.

Also, don't be this whimp. https://youtu.be/lOz_Xl33A8I?t=933

Know what you want and what you do not want, and make sure she knows it. Make a list of your fetishes and limits, write down your fantasies and scenarios. Communicate and discuss everything with her. The more detailed - the better. Improvisation is good only if you have a great collaborative experience behind. For the first time, let her know what to work with. Most of the problems here - from the discrepancy of expectations and a different view of things ..