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I found this video online. It explains how to cum by mind.
But it doesn't work for me. I always need one last stroke.
Any ideas why?

I do what the video says and watching porn and relax m body. After 30 minutes or 60 minutes I feel really near to orgasm, but nothing happend. After 4 hours I mostly broke up and doing a last stroke to orgasm. I don't understand why it doesn't work and feel frustrated. One time I slept first and did the stroke in the morning.

I tried maybe 3 times after seeing that video first time, but before I practiced similar things without more success.

One thing the video shows me is that not trying to be hard even works better. I feel more excited and the erection is harder after a few minutes. What I feel between 2 and 4 hours is that I lose the power and got limp anyway. One theory is that I only need the stroke only because I am not fully hard.

I am happy for every comment and experience.

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Some ideas.

Go for longer period of time without orgasm before trying.

If you can't do it that session, don't 'give in' and give that last stroke. Wait a day and try again.

Try hypnosis

like - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJx3sx5h9NI

or - https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php? ... 86a4943d74
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polkadotwolf wrote: Sat Aug 19, 2017 3:37 pm Go for longer period of time without orgasm before trying.
I will try. Most important there is to find a way making notes about it. My last orgasm happend 7 and a half hour ago. But I really don't know how long I waited before. Maybe sametime or there was an orgasm between the week.
polkadotwolf wrote: Sat Aug 19, 2017 3:37 pm If you can't do it that session, don't 'give in' and give that last stroke. Wait a day and try again.
Last time before I wrote my post. I was almost doing it, but then I did it diferent. One problem is that it excites me and I can not sleep. That's is why I was very surprised, when I could sleep a night over it once. I really need to do it on weekend and then try top use the time most efficient.

Thanks. :love:
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I can orgasm hands free very easily and it is wonderful. I used to 'try' to do it, but now it just happens I love that feeling of it being beyond my control. I love to feel my arousal slowly growing and growing and growing. It just such an amazing feeling.

Every couple of weeks I like to listen to hypnosis and watch erotic stuff late at night, sometimes for 2-3 hours or more and by the end I am so unbelievable horny I'm practically shaking. Hands free orgasms are the best orgasms ever I think. They 'feel' different' and the build up is much more intense.

Another thing you can try is doing it over a long period of time (i.e. 2-3 hours or more). If you have the weekend off, then Friday night, get into the mood, watch stuff that gets you excited (no touching), and have like 4-5 HFO videos or audios lined up. Don't even worry about having an orgasm, just enjoy the feeling of intense arousal. If you don't cum the for the first one,then move onto the next one and so on. This is how I accidentally discovered HFO the first time. I was watching videos and becoming more and more aroused and then there was a hands free hypnosis by Fiona Clearwater (the first link in my post above) and I thought "this is interesting" and I tried it and it was awesome and I did indeed have a hands free orgasm. She 'snaps' her fingers to trigger pleasure and it felt so good.

Hypnosis stuff can be incredible, but I find it very hit and miss and a bit of a treasure hunt, but when you find that one that pushes your buttons just right. Wow.

p.s. search for HFO or "hands free orgasm" on sites. That seems to be the main term for it. You probably already knew that, but I mention it only because of your title and on the off-chance you didn't know that.
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Thank you.

Sometimes I think it is not about the time and maybe it is easier if I got faster excited.
Would you say, that is true?
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I want to say how happy I am with hypnosis.
I could sleep after it and it was not too much.
Very fantastique. I think I am much closer to get a HFO.
But it looks like it don't happen today.
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Once you get the hang of it, its quite easy.
Try some hands free hypno audio there's lots of them about on google.

The trick is to really imagine being stroked or sucked off. Over time you will notice a sort of tingle in your cock head. Focus on that and allow it to build.
Imagine cunning and feel those sensations that u would feel if you were using your hand.
It did take me a year or two of on and off trying before I "got" it.
Now I can go from soft to hand free cum in 15-30 mins.

Good luck and hope u get over the last hurdle. It is really great when u get to the edge and u can just hover as long as u want.
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My closest experience was, when I formed a "cockring" with my fingers during the session and put it on my dick's base to hold my foreskin bow-taut back. An actual cockring doesn't do that. I cummed.

I would say, being chaste don't effect the chance. 24 hours is really enough to me.

But I want to break that last border.

my favourite video is
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php? ... f2c25d9552

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Hostage wrote: Tue Aug 22, 2017 9:17 pm Thank you.

Sometimes I think it is not about the time and maybe it is easier if I got faster excited.
Would you say, that is true?
Oh sorry I didn't see this until now. Was no notification.

I don't know about faster excited. If I'm very horny I can do HFO very quickly, but I prefer not to. I like to drag it out and make it last playing multiple hypnosis in a row. Being aroused for a long time with the arousal slowly growing is the best I think.

My favorite hypnosis are usually about the idea of being aroused itself and/or the idea of being deep in hypnosis and giving up control. Almost anything by Kasha Shakti is amazing and hit the right notes for me.

I think your cockring technique was a good idea and that you are getting closer to a total hands-free orgasm.
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polkadotwolf wrote: Thu Sep 21, 2017 2:39 pm Oh sorry I didn't see this until now. Was no notification.
No problem. Looks like, if I need to quote for notifications.

I think about remixing my own or as best solution making a virtual keyboard to just change the pattern in in the way that is right now the best. Yesterday I had a teaseand then comes the short sequenze which pushes all my tight buttons but then it was over and I got out. Everything just was destroyed. Maybe a loop of it until the end would worked (but in that situation I think and not in general). Sometimes I feel very close but then one moment (I don't know the reason) and I am limp and don 't feel aroused at all.

I don't really find a pattern yet. But blowjob, riding, her orgasm or the idea that she is reallly hungry for my dick are patterns that works best. Very often I forgot to breath.
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