A Warning about Cock Heros
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2017 12:15 am
Hey all,
Long-time lurker here. A summary of this post is provided at the bottom.
Just a bit about me: I went through puberty at a very young age (maybe 10 or so) and discovered the joys of internet porn at around 12 or 13. I've never been much of a ladies' man, getting my first girlfriend and my first sexual experience at around 22 (more on this later). All throughout this time, I've masturbated an average of once a day (maybe around 5 times a week on average). I started playing Cock Heros from Cock Hero 4, and have played almost all of them (the toughest one I can pass is Inferno - Canto I, and the easiest one I fail on is supermokkori's Stroker Ace 3).
What follows (as you can perhaps guess from the title), is a warning about porn in general and Cock Heros in particular.
Around 6 years ago, after about 2-3 weeks of courting my first girlfriend, we were about to have sex. I fingered her for a bit, and ate her out for a bit. I then tried to have sex with her, but suddenly I couldn't get hard. As is understandable, my girlfriend at the time was not very supportive and that was the end of that. I chalked it up to being tired (it was around 6AM), and didn't make too much of it.
About a month later, I was in Thailand and "picked up" a girl at a bar (I didn't realise it at the time, but she was obviously a hooker). I was pretty drunk, and we went home. I put on a condom, and we proceeded to have some pretty hot sex for an hour or so (this was me losing my virginity). It felt pretty great, but I could not cum at all. She eventually got sick of it and sore, so we stopped. I ended up jacking off next to her to finish, which felt satisfying anyway. We repeated this in the morning (an hour of hot sex before I jacked off). I chalked this up to me being unable to cum with a condom on.
For the next 5 years or so, I had no girlfriends and no sex. I got pretty unlucky in the Philippines with the ladies, but otherwise didn't really try anywhere else. I watched a documentary about porn around two years ago https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU, and quit porn for a few months. It didn't motivate me to do anything though, and I decided that I didn't care about getting into a relationship. I went back to porn. Soon after, I'd discovered Cock Hero which felt pretty much as good as sex had been anyway.
About a year ago, I went to Thailand again, on the way back from Korea and Japan. I went out one night, got moderately drunk, and went home with another prostitute (not intending to, but she was irresistably hot). Again I put on a condom, and had hot sex for around an hour before we gave up. Again, I ended up jacking off onto her. Again, I chalked it up to not being able to cum with a condom on or maybe being drunk.
Throughout the course of my travels, I had been a bit of a voyeur, reading online about Nuru Massages and Blowjob Bars in Japan, and then about Blowjob Bars in Thailand (from the single man travel and rockitreports sites). I finally went to a fairly well known and highly regarded blowjob bar in Bangkok, after about three to five days of not masturbating or cumming (the last time was with the hooker). I picked the most attractive girl there, paid her, and she proceeded to blow me for about 10 mins (no condom). It felt pretty good, but I could not cum. Arguably, her technique wasn't so great. She then called over an older, far less attractive lady over. She then blew me for about 10 mins as well. I finally came (first time someone else had finished me off) when she stuck a finger in my butt (not fully in). When I went home I found out that the older lady was actually one of the best at that bar when it came to technique! I didn't go back to that place.
Later in Thailand, I started using Tinder. I went on some dates, and ended up bringing one girl back to my place. It'd been two or three days since the blowjob bar, and I was really horny and awake, but again I couldn't get it up all night (condom on).
After Thailand, I visited Vietnam. I'd read online about their blowjob bars too. The girls in Vietnam were far hotter, and their technique was great, but I had the same problem. It was a lot tougher for me to cum, and they'd pretty much all ask me what was wrong. All the same, I probably went back around 10 or so times, and they made me cum each time. I didn't masturbate at all in Vietnam for the course of a month. Towards the end of it, it was still taking me quite a while to finish. I also visited a relatively high-end massage place that did a body massage and then hand relief. I had the same problem there with taking too long. I went back home after this, and went back to porn.
A few months after this, I was in Australia and found a prostitute online who did no-condom blowjobs. I visited her after a few days of not masturbating. She was one of the hottest women I'd ever seen. She gave me a massage, and then a really good blowjob. It still took me a while to cum, but not as long as in Asia.
Around two months ago, I entered into a more serious relationship. I stopped masturbating and stopped watching porn. After about a week of this, we tried to have sex. Despite being aroused all through the day, I could not get it up. Luckily, she was very supportive and this was not the end. We tried again the next night. We had sex in various positions for the next hour or so, before I finished myself. We repeated this the next few days, eventually ditching the condoms. She tried everything to finish me, but it was nearly impossible. After over a week of this, I was finally able to cum inside her. Over the next month, I was able to cum inside her every time, with growing ease. About a week ago, however, we were having sex with a condom on (private reasons), and I was again unable to cum.
I'm 28, and I'm a very healthy, uncircumcised (this might matter) male besides this. I don't abuse drugs and I don't drink too much. I highly suspect that porn in general and cock hero in particular can really rewire your brain, making it tougher to get aroused and far tougher to orgasm. In my personal experience, this has led to erectile dysfunction and sexual problems. These problems can erode your confidence in the future by providing your brain with memories of times past. In terms of actual sensations, to me sensation or enjoyment scale looks something like:
unprotected sex > unprotected blowjob > cock hero > sex with condom > porn
To me, the difference between porn and sex in terms of sensations isn't that huge, so I would say that unless this was something that really bothered you, it is possible to go without.
Feel free to reply or PM me if you have any questions. I will check every few days.
THE TL;DR: porn + cock heros caused me to have erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems. These eventually stopped once I stopped watching porn and playing cock hero. Be careful.
This man talks about the phenomenon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
Long-time lurker here. A summary of this post is provided at the bottom.
Just a bit about me: I went through puberty at a very young age (maybe 10 or so) and discovered the joys of internet porn at around 12 or 13. I've never been much of a ladies' man, getting my first girlfriend and my first sexual experience at around 22 (more on this later). All throughout this time, I've masturbated an average of once a day (maybe around 5 times a week on average). I started playing Cock Heros from Cock Hero 4, and have played almost all of them (the toughest one I can pass is Inferno - Canto I, and the easiest one I fail on is supermokkori's Stroker Ace 3).
What follows (as you can perhaps guess from the title), is a warning about porn in general and Cock Heros in particular.
Around 6 years ago, after about 2-3 weeks of courting my first girlfriend, we were about to have sex. I fingered her for a bit, and ate her out for a bit. I then tried to have sex with her, but suddenly I couldn't get hard. As is understandable, my girlfriend at the time was not very supportive and that was the end of that. I chalked it up to being tired (it was around 6AM), and didn't make too much of it.
About a month later, I was in Thailand and "picked up" a girl at a bar (I didn't realise it at the time, but she was obviously a hooker). I was pretty drunk, and we went home. I put on a condom, and we proceeded to have some pretty hot sex for an hour or so (this was me losing my virginity). It felt pretty great, but I could not cum at all. She eventually got sick of it and sore, so we stopped. I ended up jacking off next to her to finish, which felt satisfying anyway. We repeated this in the morning (an hour of hot sex before I jacked off). I chalked this up to me being unable to cum with a condom on.
For the next 5 years or so, I had no girlfriends and no sex. I got pretty unlucky in the Philippines with the ladies, but otherwise didn't really try anywhere else. I watched a documentary about porn around two years ago https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU, and quit porn for a few months. It didn't motivate me to do anything though, and I decided that I didn't care about getting into a relationship. I went back to porn. Soon after, I'd discovered Cock Hero which felt pretty much as good as sex had been anyway.
About a year ago, I went to Thailand again, on the way back from Korea and Japan. I went out one night, got moderately drunk, and went home with another prostitute (not intending to, but she was irresistably hot). Again I put on a condom, and had hot sex for around an hour before we gave up. Again, I ended up jacking off onto her. Again, I chalked it up to not being able to cum with a condom on or maybe being drunk.
Throughout the course of my travels, I had been a bit of a voyeur, reading online about Nuru Massages and Blowjob Bars in Japan, and then about Blowjob Bars in Thailand (from the single man travel and rockitreports sites). I finally went to a fairly well known and highly regarded blowjob bar in Bangkok, after about three to five days of not masturbating or cumming (the last time was with the hooker). I picked the most attractive girl there, paid her, and she proceeded to blow me for about 10 mins (no condom). It felt pretty good, but I could not cum. Arguably, her technique wasn't so great. She then called over an older, far less attractive lady over. She then blew me for about 10 mins as well. I finally came (first time someone else had finished me off) when she stuck a finger in my butt (not fully in). When I went home I found out that the older lady was actually one of the best at that bar when it came to technique! I didn't go back to that place.
Later in Thailand, I started using Tinder. I went on some dates, and ended up bringing one girl back to my place. It'd been two or three days since the blowjob bar, and I was really horny and awake, but again I couldn't get it up all night (condom on).
After Thailand, I visited Vietnam. I'd read online about their blowjob bars too. The girls in Vietnam were far hotter, and their technique was great, but I had the same problem. It was a lot tougher for me to cum, and they'd pretty much all ask me what was wrong. All the same, I probably went back around 10 or so times, and they made me cum each time. I didn't masturbate at all in Vietnam for the course of a month. Towards the end of it, it was still taking me quite a while to finish. I also visited a relatively high-end massage place that did a body massage and then hand relief. I had the same problem there with taking too long. I went back home after this, and went back to porn.
A few months after this, I was in Australia and found a prostitute online who did no-condom blowjobs. I visited her after a few days of not masturbating. She was one of the hottest women I'd ever seen. She gave me a massage, and then a really good blowjob. It still took me a while to cum, but not as long as in Asia.
Around two months ago, I entered into a more serious relationship. I stopped masturbating and stopped watching porn. After about a week of this, we tried to have sex. Despite being aroused all through the day, I could not get it up. Luckily, she was very supportive and this was not the end. We tried again the next night. We had sex in various positions for the next hour or so, before I finished myself. We repeated this the next few days, eventually ditching the condoms. She tried everything to finish me, but it was nearly impossible. After over a week of this, I was finally able to cum inside her. Over the next month, I was able to cum inside her every time, with growing ease. About a week ago, however, we were having sex with a condom on (private reasons), and I was again unable to cum.
I'm 28, and I'm a very healthy, uncircumcised (this might matter) male besides this. I don't abuse drugs and I don't drink too much. I highly suspect that porn in general and cock hero in particular can really rewire your brain, making it tougher to get aroused and far tougher to orgasm. In my personal experience, this has led to erectile dysfunction and sexual problems. These problems can erode your confidence in the future by providing your brain with memories of times past. In terms of actual sensations, to me sensation or enjoyment scale looks something like:
unprotected sex > unprotected blowjob > cock hero > sex with condom > porn
To me, the difference between porn and sex in terms of sensations isn't that huge, so I would say that unless this was something that really bothered you, it is possible to go without.
Feel free to reply or PM me if you have any questions. I will check every few days.
THE TL;DR: porn + cock heros caused me to have erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems. These eventually stopped once I stopped watching porn and playing cock hero. Be careful.
This man talks about the phenomenon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
