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I'm currently at 47 days without orgasm, and in the process of setting a new personal best. I'm planning on going for 60 days.

It's got me curious about what others do or have done. I've read of people going as long as a year without an orgasm. To me that sounds crazy, but then I never thought I'd be trying for 60 days either.

I did 45 days back in January and February, then tried to beat that back in June. I made it 44 days before losing it while doing some edges, only two days short of beating my previous record. That was maddening!

Through that process, and through doing Stroke Training 1 by millie86 I've developed much better control, and am pretty confident I can make 60 days now.

Anyway, I'm curious to hear your experiences if you care to share....

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16 days is my record...
Miss Linda decides when I should be allowed to spurt..

I can't even ~imagine~ 60 days.....much less even 45...

46 days. Doesn't sound long but it's tough. I love stroking & edging too much. I'm always so damn horny (thanks in part to a fairly new, lovely, Suicide-Girl-type redheaded coworker. Geeezuz. Insanely hot, flirty, & teasing. My idea of a perfect, petite, athletic, female curved body... ass.... tits. Smells intoxicatingly mesmerizing. Cute, bubbly, smart, sexy, beautiful, fun, funny... the whole package. ). I can't even go a few days self locked up anymore. If I had a Domme or key holder it'd be worth going longer. I'd love to be that devoted to another.
I've imagined enforced chastity, being held longer & longer between orgasms, slowly weaned off of them, being broken down, trained.... mmmmmmm... being pierced, even having permanent lockup one day (or threats of permanence to ensure my full compliance at all times)! At this point, it isn't ever going to happen, so why bother?
Good luck tho. Why stop at 60? 3 months sounds better, doesn't it? Or 6.

90 days, give or take. I was involved in a tease that lasted 3 months. There was a ruined orgasm at the end of the first 2 months but no true release until it was all said and done. As part of the end we were supposed to choose a category of slave we fit into. Bondage, Chastity, Humiliation, Cross-dressing, and a few others. I chose chastity and was SUPPOSED to wait like another month but I decided it had been long enough.

If you wanna get technical, then you could say 4 years. After I hit puberty, no one told me what "Masturbation" was and I never really figured it out. I knew stroking it felt good but not to "keep going" until orgasm. Effectively I was blue-balling myself without knowing any better. Eventually I sat down funny on the toilet, I felt a weird "pop" and my dick leaked a clear goo for a minute or so. I asked to see the doctor, thinking something was wrong. And I finally had "the talk" at 16 years old.

Yes, my school had sex-ed classes that I took. But they were so generic and "dulled down" that it sounded more like a science lecture to me and I didn't understand how "people" were involved. In retrospect, that may be what cause me to enjoy T&D so much now.

Wow... I'm so impressed with everyone's answers.. I'm here at a measly two weeks. I've been trying to go longer for ages but I always just have that one accidental touch or go on just a second too long, and a get a ruined orgasm. If you don't include ruined orgasms as cumming, then I'm up to one month

60 days for me, doing both sets of Jana's back to back

I've personally gone 90 days, that is without any touching or porn. And oh my god, did it feel good to break that streak. I'm not sure how long I could go with touching and porn. I probably won't find out any time soon either :D

About 3 months I think. But not really into it lately.

I'm nearing four months now. My gf locked me in a chastity device in July, she been taking it off every two weeks and getting me to the edge a couple of times then putting it back on. So, we'll see how long this goes before I'm allowed to have a release of any kind.

longest was 11 days... i was sick in between lol

Probably around 2 weeks. It felt like an eternity, but after reading what some of the rest of you have accomplished, it certainly pales in comparison.

I know somebody who claims to have gone 2 years, but I couldn't even fathom such a feat.

31 days for me. I find that the first 7 days are the toughest, then I just start craving edging more and more.

Back in the day I did manage to avoid orgasm for 10 days and I wanted to last until I get a wet dream. Unfortunately i was "edging" but I didn't know it is called "edging" and I accidentaly reached point of no return and ended up in agony of having no great orgasm for 10 days long abstinence or the desired wet dream.

Do any of you guys who are having 20 or more days had wet dream with ejaculation ? I do not know if it is wort waiting 20 - 60 days - any ideas ?

I won the SC challenge at 70 days, feel free to check the thread.
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With the help of several caring dominants I have been lucky enough to go 100, 81, 60, and 56 days. Each one was a unique journey. I am currently on day 28 of a denial period that may or may not end on Halloween. Mistress R says I'll have to send her an email "trick or treat" on that day and She will decide my fate. Having recently explained to her what an edge ladder is, I'm expecting a nasty trick