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Hi,

This is a discussion about the difference/similarity between the fetishes you have on sites like this one and your preferences in the real world, and the causes of the possible contrasts.

I, for instance, know that I get really turned on by feet in porn. But in real life, although feet are one of the first things I notice about a girl and can sometimes kinda captivate me, I really don't want to lick them or suck them, the simple idea of doing so makes me soft, even when the said feet are beautiful. That I can't explain at all.

Same goes for bi/gay fantasies. As weird as it seems, I can totally picture myself sucking cock, but never sucking another guy's cock. I know other guys that I found attractive, but then again, the idea of kissing them let alone having any forms of sex with them makes me soft. That I think is due to the high quality of the forced bi teases and videos available on internet, most of the best femdom pov videos treat you like you're a sub man, hence gay.

Finally, a few years ago I was really into sissyfication teases. But as time went, I felt like they didn't excite me at all anymore. I try to watch/read some from time to time, but nope, it's finished.
What made it exciting at the time was probably the appeal to novelty, which faded away as this isn't actually my thing.


Let me know what you think :)

i think its interestnig you post this since i have kind of similar things.
I really like watching bdsm and chastity kind of things.
In real life i try it sometimes but just doesnt seem to connect 100%

what i found after checking with myself is that i like the honest feelings of (mostly amateur) movies.
This way you know its not acting and its real.
There is so much 'oohh ahhh, yeah right there' on the web it almost turns me off..

so, i dont know if you can get something out of this. but might be something similar to your feet-stuff?

I think I had the same sort of feelings about sissification and forced bi, but for me, far from the novelty wearing off, the appeal of it actually sort of started to grow with time. It's still something that absolutely remains a fantasy (my girlfriend has no idea), and the fact of the matter is that dudes, in general, just aren't attractive to me at all. Something about the forced fem hypnosis videos though--I think you're right that they're very high quality. They bombard you with sexy images and sounds and sort of fuck with your brain in a way that is amazing and makes me feel very submissive in that moment.