EDITED - 13. FEBRUARY 2017, 0:53
That sounds great and terrible at the same time.
If you are not allowed to use any tools at all, it's probably really hard to cum while having your glans inside but motionless. There is one thing that may work depending on how much time separates the moment when you edge yourself and the moment when you have your glans inside your wifes pussy and you are allowed to try to cum. If the time is <10 seconds then there might be a hope for you.
This might take a little while before I get to my point but 5 more minutes will probably not make a difference for you. Back in the day I was looking for some methods to enhance my masturbating experience. I am not gonna name them all, because only two are supposed to help you. The method is related to PC muscle and if you are going to find more about that you will probably get to know that you should basically bring yourself to the "point of no return" and then squeeze your pc muscles to avoid your sperm going out and blah blah blah... They also say that you have to try it again and again to really control your orgasm and I agree with that - the practice makes the master. Well, I saw "multiple orgasms" coming to me for "free" and i deciced to try it. I did some kegels to help my PC muscles get stronger and then went for the execution... After bringing myself to the "point of no return" I squeezed my PC muscles and probably my all other of my lower body muscles too to keep the sperm inside, and it worked. It worked, but it felt sooo uncomfortable. To describe the feeling exactly, I felt like the sperm was stuck somewhere in my "pipes". I gave myself a full orgasm afterwards just to make sure that all the sperm got out in order to keep myslef healthy in that regard. I continued to try that for next few weeks but the result remained the same - the uncomfortable feeling afterwards. That made me to give up on this method and just continue to experiment with other methods.
The other method is edging. You mentioned it so I assume i don't have to explain how it works step-by-step. I tried to edge in a lot of different ways and the best way to edging is building the edge really slowly and patiently. For example when I edge with fast strokes and really tight grip and do 20-30 edges like this (the best way how to get the death grip syndrome btw) it makes my orgasm better than when i just jerk off without edging (in most of the cases)
BUT there were some exceptions. And the exceptions occured when I came after what I call a "spontaneous masturbation". To explain the "spontaneous masturbation"... It happens when you have no intentions to masturbate and you are not even horny but then you somehow see something that turns you on while browsing the internet and you decide to watch it, because it excites you (for example videoclip with sexy babes). You continue to watch it and your dick starts to get harder and harder, but you don't help it anyhow. And then it either makes you to search for porn or reminds you of some porn video you saw in the past and made you cum soooo easily (at least that's how it happens to me). Then I usually watched the porn and came really hard. To be honest I never actually thought about how it can be so different until I discovered this
https://milovana.com/webteases/showflash.php?id=25754.
What is it ? That's probably the question you are asking right now. These instructions allowed me to experience 3 or more times better orgasm than after 30 furious edges which I thought was impossible to achieve. The point you should take from the insctructions in the link is how to make your cock
not twitch when excited (I am still learning to master it completely, but even if you reduce the twitching just a little, you should be able to feel the diefference). Obviously in the insturctions it says that a woman should be wanking you and you should help her to identify when your cock twitches, but you can't cheat on yourself because you can always tell, if that was a twitching or not (so it is much easier to learn by your own).
THIS WILL NOT WORK IF YOU HAVE THE DEATH GRIP SYNDROME. As soon as you consider yourself able to control most of the twitches you are ready to go.
- So the summary before I finally get to my point - you should:
1. Get rid of your "death grip syndrome" if you have one
2. Know how, when and which muscles to squeeze in order to keep your cum inside after you reach the certain point
3. Know how to edge without or with the least possible amount of twitching. It is only acceptable to twitch AFTER reaching the edge (because I don't think it is possible to not twitch after edge)
Now we have the parts but we need to put them together in right order. To succeed you should you should pick yourself 2 days per week to train - I wouldn't recomend two consecutive days in a row (best choice = 3 days of not cumming and training on the 4th day, then 2 days of not cumming and 3rd day is the training one). But if you don't cum at all it doesn't matter which day you pick. After picking your days, you should start after 3 days of not cumming.
Phase 1
Make yourself comfortable, try to make sure that nobody interupts you and try to find an exciting porn video (or more of them). To start right, you should not help your cock to get hard, but the cock should get hard by it own. Once hard, you should start stroking slowly with light grip. If you can feel the excitement to grow, you can stroke slower or if it doesn't excite you at all you can speed it up, but always make sure that the speed doesn't make your cock twitch. If your cock twitches often, you should take a break and then start again. The cock usually twitches less after every pause and even less after every edge. If you made it to the edge with low amount of twitches, the edge should be very intense. Then let your dick go completely soft and then start again. Edge like this at least 3 times.
Phase 2
Start stroking again and bring yourself close to the edge. Once you are close, your strokes should be really "short" (the motion of your hand should be around 5mm for each stroke) and should focus and the bottom of the glans (where the glans connects with the shaft of your dick) and you can speed up the stroking (still remember to avoid the twitching before getting to the edge). If you twitch too much, you should take a break and start again. Edge few times - the more the better.
Before the 3rd Phase i will try to explain the "orgasm meter". Let's say, the orgasm meter works like this:
- 1. When you reach "normal edge" (PHASE 1), the meter would show 95-97% of orgasm - that means that couple of strokes will take you to the point of no return (sometimes the cock doesn't twitch after this).
2. When you reach "the proper" edge (PHASE 2) the meter would show 97,1-98,9% of orgasm - if your dick did not twitch until this point, it means that if it starts to twitch now, you are about to reach the next state (based on my experience). At this point just one stroke or the softest touch would bring you over the point of no return.
3. When you reach the "cum leakage" state the meter would show 99-99,25% of orgasm - that means that when you stop stimulating your cock at this point, some cum will dribble from your cock. This feeling is rather annoying than pleasurable because this means that you overstimulated yourself and your edge control is not on point.
4. When you reach the "semi-ruined orgasm" state the meter would show 99,26-99,6% of orgasm - that means that when you stop stimulating your cock at this point, a singificant amount of cum will dribble out of your dick. This feel pleasurable, mostly because it felt almost like an orgasm, but doesn't put you on the refractory period. It means that you will be able to stimulate yourself again in just a few moments (if you like to do this as I do, don't start stroking again for at least 20 seconds after your last cum dribbles from your cock, because it can still take you over the point of no return).
5. (* explained after the number 6)
6. When you reach the "point of no return" state the meter would show 100% of orgasm - that basically means game over. If you don't know how to squeeze you PC muscles properly, you will go on the refractory period.
* explanation of nr. 5 - Everything between
99,6-99,99% is the
ZONE OF RISK, because you can so easily lose control and compared to the reward from doing this (which is maybe to get slightly better feeling from semi-ruined orgasm) it is not worth to do it.
Phase 3
The point of the training is to use "short" strokes to get to the "proper edge" state (it means to keep the meter 97,1-98,9%). Doing this is extremely pleasurable but difficult to handle. The longer you keep yourself at this state the better for you. Here is the point where the PC muscles comes in. When you hold yourself in the "proper edge" state you will either go back to "normal edge" state or the "cum leakage" state. We want to reach the cum leaking state - as soon as you can feel that you reached the "cum leakage" state (you will have to try it over and over to know when this happens, but it's not as hard to recognize it) you must squeeze your PC muscles and let your dick go. When you manage to stop your cum from leaking, take a little break (your dick doesn't have to go soft this time) and try it again. Be careful while executing this because when you squeeze the muscles, the feeling of the cum getting out of your dick will go away, but if you release the muscles at this point, the cum will probably leak from your cock anyway. To avoid the leakage from happening, you should hold your PC muscles squeezed for another 5-10 seconds after the feeling of cum getting out is gone. Do this at least 5 times per training. If you manage to master this, you can try to hold your cum back when you reach the "semi-ruined orgasm" state. Doing so will definetely increase the amount of cum coming out of your dick and will probably make your orgasm look more authentic (I have no experience with squeezing PC muscles while in "semi-ruined orgasm" state).
So.... how to aplly this to your glans inserting session ? You should have 100% control of what I described above. Then in theory you should be able to reach "cum leakage" state and be able to hold your cum to the moment when you are allowed to cum (as i mentioned, I am not sure if you can hold this state for more than 10 seconds but you should try it). DON'T FORGET, THAT WHEN YOU ARE SQUEEZING YOUR PC MUSCLES, YOUR FACE EXPRESIONS MAY REVEAL THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DO SOMETHING UNUSUAL. If you have some routine between edging and putting your glans to your wife's vagina, you should probably train to make it look as natural as possible (For example if your wife lays on the bed with spread legs and you kneel on the ground while you edge and then you do steps on your knees to reach her, you should train it). And you should also drink a lot of fluids when you are trying to do this.
I know it was exhausting reading but I hope it will help you, or someone with the same issue.
If there are is something unclear in the text please make me notice.
I really hope it was you and not your wife who posted this, because that would mean that I just gave all the Aces to her hand
I am looking forward your next report
