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Gentlemen. It has come to my attention that some of our fantastic and wonderful Ladies here on Milovana have become slightly annoyed with the behavior of us men/boys/sissies/subs. Some so much so, that they would rather leave than be inundated with requests for tasks, and flooded with incessant begging by us boys to perform for them.

This is a reminder for us all, that Milovana is nothing without the amazing people that make up its community.

So now that these concerns have been raised and vocalized, let us fix our immature, puppy like ways, and start to grow into people with some concern for etiquette and the way our actions all create reactions. Therefore, if you see a Princess or one of our beautiful Ladies enter chat, greet her kindly and ask her how She is doing. If She feels like assigning tasks, She knows you are willing and certainly does not need to be told so countless times. In short, R-E-S-P-E-C-T... find out what it means to She.

Have a great day everyone, and happy playing. Let's show these Ladies we're worth sticking around for. :)
Mike_from_canada_18

its so true - i confess to being guilty - though i try to be cute, i can still be a pain in the ass-- c'mon guys respect (im talking to me too)

Well, I for one would like to take this time to apologize for any/all behavior that may have contributed to the general discomfiture of our ladies. Milovana, while a very open, welcoming community, is alas not without its faults. I'm sure no one here wishes to offend, we just sometimes get a bit carried away. Sorry, ladies! Your participation here is a welcome endeavor, and I would hate to see that participation ruined because of some thoughtless antics. Please accept my most sincere apologies.



Kes

Hehe, I have to admit that it is a little disconcerting and frustrating when there are only 2 or 3 of us princesses in the room and 9 odd of you boys getting over exited! the same go's for a some of you on msn who don't ask to dominated but rather beg and insist on it...i'm not saying that everyone is in the wrong, far from it...just a small minority needs to learn a little etiquette for a more pleasing social experience

Guys,

Its kinda nice to say hello and introduce yourselves before saying how desperate you are to come! Manners boys

Little Miss Jay xx

This thread is wonderful but long apologies aren't necessary.

Most guys are fine in the chatroom, but do watch your manners. That's what we like after all.

I have only had two experiences in the chat room... one was a blast, the other had me leaving. My enjoyment was very related to the manners of the guys.

I've not used the chat rooms myself yet, but I'd just like to say that a similar thing happened some time ago when a couple of Ladies allowed us to play some online games with Them.

Let's just say that the disrespect shown by some to these wonderful Ladies led to both of them deciding They'd had enough and They left the community, much to the regret of many

So be warned guys!!!

I've gone through the process of writing a reply for this thread several times. I just can't find the right way of expressing how I feel on this topic, which is frustrating to say the least.

I actually feel embarrassed to be in the chatroom when someone enters the chat and right away starts petitioning (or in the worst cases: straight out demanding...) for the ladies in the room to tease them. If I have such a strong reaction to it, I can barely imagine the reaction of the ladies themselves! The actions of these individuals not only disrespect the ladies in the room, but also show a lack of respect for the other gentlemen in the room and for the entire site itself. It really does make the chatroom a less enjoyable place to be and, lest we forget it, the point of the chatroom is to have fun! :D

However, and this is perhaps the crux of my post, the very people we are talking about are highly unlikely to actually read this thread at all. This post, plus the others above it, will go unheeded and the ladies will continue to be treated without the respect they deserve.


As always I will turn to my favourite Prime Minister to provide the words I simply cannot:

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.
-Winston Churchill

Amen!

Indeed, don't start begging right away. Begging is part of a later stage in the process of t&d

Ok first: Every woman sees it different. There are women who like the attention and there are women who are annoyed of too much attention. It's our job to find it out and not their job to say every guy how they want it.

It's just senseless to enter a chatroom and ask for a sexual service as a man. If the woman wants to have a tease toy, or whatever else, she will ask for it. I can understand these guys who are acting bold, because they are horny and need attention, but I don't understand it when they are scaring away women. And I know about at least two women now who were so annoyed about these desperate, bold acting guys that they left the site.

Never forget a woman is a sensual and sensitive individual (at least the most). Women want to get seduced, but with respect. Why should a woman talk dirty with a guy she don't know? You guys should always think about how to make a woman feel good and don't think first about your sexual pleasure. Only then you will have success! This rule is not only for the internet, this is a rule you can use anywhere. In a bar, at your workplace or also in a chatroom.

Don't be greedy, show patience

Well said, Dark. I for one, agree completely. The ladies appreciate respect, and common courtesy most of all. We all owe them for adding yet another wonderful facet to this gem of a website.

Nuff' said.