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Hey guys,

I have a uncommon question i hope you can help me with. I have met a domina online who is training me to be her slave via whats app. She also has a studio and we made our first real life appoinment.

I want to bring some sort of gift with me - but the question I have no answer to is: what gift could a slave make her domina to impress her? should not be more expensive than 100$

To impress her you should treat her like a woman first. Viewing her as a "Domina" only will get you nowhere. Making an in-line DS flavored gift would show that your only interest in the relationship is sexual, which can be not so good for a lot of women*.

So first ask yourself a question - what is your interest, and what is hers.
1) If you are sure her interest is only having fun/fucking/enslaving you, then yea, bring something kinky.
2) If you want a relationship with her and know she's even considering it (i.e. she's not actually a prostitute who's in it for your money) then treat her like a girl above anything else.

What to present to a girl beyond flowers? Well, that, my friend, only you can answer, because each woman likes different stuff, and there's NO WAY for us here to tell what she will or wont like. Figure it out, go through your discussions to do so.

*There are exceptions, depends on her personality.

thank you for your thoughts!

What do you mean with "inline ds flavoured gift"?

And apart from flowers, is there something else a woman always likes?

I know, tastes are different. :)

What do you mean with "inline ds flavoured gift"?

I mean something BDSM or fetish related.

tilttilt wrote:
What do you mean with "inline ds flavoured gift"?

Key from your chastity belt! ;)

Nezhul said it all :).
Also bring happiness and you will be fine

And apart from flowers, is there something else a woman always likes?

Sweets, jewelry, clothes. Just note that for jewelry and clothes you need to at least have to know her decently first - or such present may creep her out a bit.

Bottom line is - if you don't know her that well than go for really cheap things. The tokens of attention rather than actually something expensive. Chocolates, for instance

She is not looking for a relationship with me, just a dom/sub one.

Thank you all for your help so far. I guess choclate is the best. Maybe a gift card? I don´t know. To come empty handed would leave a bad first impression I am afraid.

tilttilt wrote:She is not looking for a relationship with me, just a dom/sub one.

Thank you all for your help so far. I guess choclate is the best. Maybe a gift card? I don´t know. To come empty handed would leave a bad first impression I am afraid.

Dont get chocolate. Some woman hate if if you gift them food
Figure that one out first ;)

                     


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          Rarely a bad choice, a mixed bunch covers most favourites.

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flowers and a gift card it is! :D thank you

                     


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    You do not know what gift she wants so a gift card can be less enthusiastically received

                     Tell the florist they are for a web date, they are sure to help you choose well.