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                     Keep it simple stupid. Baby Steps


                     start with handjob teases, and anything else that looks more fun than punishment.
            Day to day at home treat her as a mistress. Call her Miss 'Christian name'
          Simple safe word for both sides is
                    SAFEWORD 




                     

Looks like you may have to top from the bottom a little. Getting her to do dominant things to you.
But ill bite.
Get her to kneel over your face while you eat her out.
Have a sex session that involves just rubbing and kissing and eating her.
Show her how much you give her while in denial.
Kiss her feet.
Invite her to fuck another man.
Give her a gift for no reason.

Very interesting.

My suggestions:
-Get ropes and she ties your hands to the bed.
-Always eat her out before sex
-Let her on top and always stop her for a moment when you´re about to cum, then tell her to keep going again.


How did you bring it up that you like to be dominated by her?


Let us know how it turns out.

-Ra

First let me say good luck.

My wife was very open to it, but it also is not her thing, however I have to say that she occasionally has a delightful evil streak.

My biggest advice is to not push her.

Some of the things that I did is I had her read the following things:

http://elisesutton.homestead.com/page2.html

http://www.akashaweb.com/women/goodgirlpreview.html (There use to be way more available.. when we did this it was prior to it being a pay site, still quite a bit of good content)

For your list, Take a look at the spread sheet here. It is a HUGE compilation of things inspired by the Get Dare community. It is broken down by category including Femdom/punishments

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=32685

Lastly, let me tell you what has worked for my Wife and I.

The big challenge has always been that she is not creative, but is open to and willing to support my kink. From my side of it, I want the element of surprise. We have used Crazyxxx's stamina game to accomplish a great balance. I created the entire game including cards that just had things about pampering her, Inspection cards for household chores with punishments, tasks, chances to cum etc. He put in the ability to have an admin password, so I handed it over to her, and she spring boarded off my ideas and changed up my ideas. This gave her enough inspiration to take it to the next level, and gave me the element of surprise I wanted. Here is the link to the game viewtopic.php?f=1&t=13211

I hope this helps.

Print off 2 kink lists, fill them out separately and see how they match, go from there and take it slow/safe. Also read up on the topic and enjoy, have fun.

mentoree in chastity....