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I am a chronic masturbator, and have jerked off multiple times each day for a very long time. Occasionally, with motivation from this site I've teased myself and stopped but it has never lasted longer than a day at most before having an orgasm. Two weeks ago I decided to delve into the fantasy of true orgasm denial as describe here at Milovana. Admittedly I've had one orgasm in this time but I'm working hard to prevent it from happening again. I found a tool in the forums here that you have to ask each day if you can orgasm, and after setting it up you will be allowed to orgasm after a randomly chosen amount of days. Also during this time I have ordered a chastity belt called the curve. It is taking some time to get used to, having something hugging my penis all the time is something very different and it hurts when I start to get erect. Especially at night, I went to sleep with it on lastnight and was woken up with my balls being pulled down rather hard and I had to remove it. I hope to keep track of my progress here if no one minds and also to look for some support in this difficult task. Hopefully things go well and no unforeseen hangups come along the way. Wish me luck and any advise/support is welcome. This is already somewhat difficult for me.

Cool. Good luck with your venture. I just recently got a cage myself that I've been trying to get used to before I try out longer term wear. I've also been trying to do longer and longer chastity durations, with the help of some chastity-based teases. I'm about six days in since my last full orgasm. Had sort of a ruined orgasm last night by accident, but it did nothing to alleviate frustration as you can imagine.

I'm aiming for long-term chastity. I'm working my way to it.

Good luck to you man. Keep us updated.

denialnewb wrote:... having something hugging my penis all the time is something very different and it hurts when I start to get erect. Especially at night, I went to sleep with it on lastnight and was woken up with my balls being pulled down rather hard and I had to remove it.

Exactly why did you have to remove it??
was it painful or just uncomfortable??
Some chastity belts are comfortable but squeezing during the day.. but somewhat painful at night
good ones hurt a little.. because our penis expands and pulls on your balls
as long as the pain was tolerable .. say 4 on a 1 to 10 scale.. then I would say next time..
Instead of taking it off..
you could do one (or even all) of the following:

1. First re adjust your balls by pulling on the skin .. you usually have to do this when wearing a cage when you get hard
gently pull the skin on the bottom (ass side)... your body is just pulling them in.. so a gentle tug often solves the problem easily..
2. get in shower/ tub and use warm water this will help lubricate your cage a bit so you can adjust (see step one) and will also help you shrink a bit
3 try sleeping with underwear on... People don't realize how much they roll around while sleeping.. the curve is not hard metal. but you can still "squish" yourself a bit.

If you have tried all 3 steps and it is STILL hurting Take the thing off.. and consider ordering a different cage.
Remember a secure cage pinches a little at night!!! ALL of them do! the question is can you tolerate the pain for a few seconds to adjust yourself in your cage until the pain subsides..
If the pain is a LOT say... 7 out of 10.. (or more)
then yes take it off immediately!
but try to figure out WHY it was hurting so much...
There are a few more secrets to tinkering with a cage so you do not have to buy anouther if you can give some more details.

In short..
wear it again at night... a good cage can be worn for 48 hours or more with minor difficulty
a bad cage hurts.. (a lot) and I have had several bad cages.. that I found can NOT be worn for 24 hours...

denialnewb wrote:... it hurts when I start to get erect. Especially at night, ...

Sometimes I have a similar problem at night but I have worn my cage for up to 5 days and nights non-stop dispite of it.

The Problem usually disapears as soon as I take a leak to empty my bladder - even, when I don't feel a need for it. My erection dies down and so does the pressure and the discomfort/pain.

You might try this in addition to the other advice.

The orgasm control program I'm using said I was allowed to cum today! The lack of cumming was starting to get difficult for me, but that relief today was outstanding. I still have a slight feeling of that denial lingering I am not going to allow myself another orgasm today. I assume that if I was under real control I would only be allowed one, so going with that. But this is not the reason for my reply.

Thank you very much for the advice. The pain I felt wasn't an horrible pain, but would've been enough to keep me from falling back asleep. It was the feeling you get when you actually pull on your balls that was painful. Not a pinching or cutting pain. I'm going to try it again tonight and if I wake, I will try adjusting it and urinating to see if it helps. And yes, I was sleeping naked. I've noticed that I feel warmer and tend to get a little more sweaty at night now that I'm denying myself instead of cumming multiple times a day. Naked keeps me cooler, but I will wear underwear and see if that helps. Thank you all so much.