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Hi gang. I thought I'd reach out to the community to get some guidance and recommendations.
After all of these years, my wife has finally begun to play a little more interestingly, and has become open to some new experiences. We even went to a couple of swingers clubs and watched others while we played with each other. She's into watching erotic videos for the first time too.

So here is my wish/challenge:

I'd like to expose her to storyline videos that feature some sensual, non-violent, non-humiliating female domination and male submission. Search as I might, I cannot find anything in that space between Nina Hartley boring teaching videos and mean-bitches / venus girls. Nina is boring, and the others would immediately turn her off for their humiliation/violence/pain stuff. I'm hopeful we can find a string of videos that tell a story, where the woman becomes aggressive/assertive in bed, controlling the situation, with a sensual domination style.

Guidance would be appreciated.
~z

Maybe "Walk all over me"

How about: Preaching to the Perverted

1. Stuff from Strapondreamer. I am not a fan of pegging ironically, but the sites director is skilled, and I like the rest of the action. Very sensual.

2. HegreArt: Bondage Femdom massage
Girl uses the guy's penis as a dildo. Very erotic.

3. Venus Girls: Cocktease photographers. No humiliation here. Just teasing.

4. 21Naturals: Out of the Blue (starring Blue Angel). Probably the least femdom-ey but it's clear in the video who has the power. Damn sexy. She is super pretty, and the focus is on her, so wife might get jealous. Feet fetish.

5. Hegre Art HJ videos, eg, "Playful Penis Massage". The dude is a stud. Wife will like it, you might feel insecure.

I can't speak much to their entire library, but you might take a look at the videos starring Capri Cavalli from teasing-video.com. (Of course they can be found elsewhere.)

*First Time Teaser
*A Regular Thing
*A Fun Habit

They include the guy getting tied up and the girl learning to tease and have fun with him. About 15 minutes each, often found in 3 parts.

Good luck!

This is really helpful so far gang! I appreciate the effort!

Someday, I'll find (or someone will make) a perfect vid to show my wife... it will be a normal, healthy couple, perhaps they will go to a swingers party, or a club, and gradually begin getting into the scene... they'll just watch at first and then go home to very hot sex... then perhaps they'll make friends and try some same room. As they get to know and trust the friends, the wife of the other couple will begin playing around with a little mild sensual domination... nothing humiliating, just, "I want you to eat me now" or "you can't cum until one of us allows it" or "I love it when you worship me with your tongue" kind of stuff..,
Or they come over to swing sometime and the other wife already has her husband comfortably bound and is teasing him... using him... "We found we couldn't wait until you got here and got ourselves all worked up... er.. tied up in hubbies case. It turns us on to watch... have a seat and get a drink while we continue... the wife and hubby do as the other couple plays sensually within the bound condition...
Then the non-bound couple begins to have hot sex and handjob play as they watch...

Perhaps then there is a scene where the wife decides that the guy, who is always attentive and focused on her pleasure, needs to be tied up so he can just receive pleasure for once, and then she goes tantra on him. perhaps playing with his prostate, which he obviously loves, perhaps escalating to a toy, or a strap on... always sensual and loving...

Now THAT movie would turn my wife (and me) on... what about yours?

Still hoping for more ideas.... I've found a couple via my AEBN account that might be nice:
Maneaters... have not seen it yet but previews look good
Shades of kink 2... looks good via write-up

So if I understand this right, you're rather looking for headporn, rather than necessarily explicitness?
Honestly, I cannot stress the mainstream movie "Body of Evidence" enough. Yes, it's decades old, yes, it's tame by today's standards. But it should get your *mind* excited, and then your pubes will follow. ;)

Also no sex, no nudity, but very much sensuality (at least to my mind):

That sounds like exactly the goal behind the movies I make with lifestyle kinky femdom couples... however, there is still a strong "loving humiliation" theme to some of my films.

Alice, would you recommend any of yours that do not have a humiliation theme, just a wif/gf having fun sensually dominating her man/husband?

I'm having a really hard time figuring out what "humiliation" means to you.

If we laugh hysterically while we tease them but don't call them names?

If we call them "slut" or "fuck hole" with love and humor, is it still humiliation?

All of my movies are available for one download price on my website. I encourage you to do that (for the price of 2 movies) instead of trying to pick out one or two titles that might match what you are looking for.

I find humiliation to be in the eye of the beholder or in the heart of the receiver.

                     


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