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Hi guys and girls,

This week (thursday) im going to a professional dominatrix. I was saving money for a long Time to let a dream come true. I will be in the hands of all girls from the Studio for at least 8hours. I told them that i am Open to anything but yet i wanted to give them some ideas for the Session. It will be their choice if or when they Do it.

Thats where i need your help. I am asking you to give me ideas and scenarios for the Session.

I like pretty much everything. My limits are remaining marks, blood, needles and urethal insertions. Im not asking for things to Do to myself so please dont tell me to masturbate or crush my balls or something like that. The mistress should be involved (or the mistresses).

Feel free to comment, you can also send me a PM if you prefer.

Yours
Subbylocked

"Up for anything"?

Think REAL hard about that. If I were you, the first thing I'd do is figure out what you flat-out won't do and let them know.

Other than that... ummm... how about you're not allowed to get off until you get one of them off by eating out their asshole. Or something difficult like that.

Tury wrote:how about you're not allowed to get off until you get one of them off by eating out their asshole. Or something difficult like that.

Nearly impossibly difficult tasks? You sir, are on the right track.

How about a solid blindfold for the ENTIRETY of the session. Meaning it has to be impossible to see anything out of it. That's the trick to making it really magical. Making you feel colors because you cant see but you feel so many things. To only be able to feel all that soft supple skin that may touch you, without seeing anything

Assuming these are very hot professional dominatrices, that you're paying good money for, I don't recommend a blindfold. I'm thinking you're gonna want to remember the visuals, not deny them from yourself!

When you say, "I like pretty much everything", first, please be honest, real, & true to yourself. So you'll fuck dogs? Get tattooed/pierced/branded, suck another guy, eat poop/vomit, jump off a building, involve kids, break bones, have your dick burned off, do things illegal by law....etc. etc.? BDSM & kinks are different to everyone. What you might like or consider 'normal' bdsm might be seen as extreme by someone else or vice versa. You are paying the girls to do what YOU like, not what they like. They are prepared for newbies like you, so you are probably overthinking it. Relax & let them do their job.

I understand most of them have checklists for you to fill out beforehand, listing kinks/fetishes, fantasy scenarios, etc., & they will discuss those with you so they can better evaluate your likes/dislikes. Simple.

If you are really that extreme & into "everything", you'll tell them your 4 limits, then tell them you don't want a safe word, then sign your life away. They might just tie you up, then split with your wallet/credit card, max it out shopping.... maybe they will do a live global broadcast since that's not one of your limits or even blackmail you. Think about it before inserting your other foot into your mouth.

Tury:
I like the idea of Not getting off, i might go there with a chastity belt and hand over the key. It would be very teasing to see them and feel them without being able to get a boner.

Jackstock:
That Sounds like a good idea, it would be even more teasing and simply the thought of their naked bodies would drive me crazy.

Dr_cunning:
True aswell, i would love to see them. I might ask them to blindfold me for One half.

Dubble: Like i said above, my limits are remaining marks and i gueSs tattoos, brandings etc count as such. Since they are professionals, they wont Do anything illegal too, no animals and no blackmailing (maybe just playing with it)


Thank you all for your answers so far, i really liked them. I love getting more and more ideas. I appreciate it, thank you :)

in my option
the only thing you have can ask/ tell a dom/domme
is your limits.
They should be the ones who decide what you are doing, when, for how long, in what way.
being a subby should be all about loss of control...
not having every detail played out ahead of time.
Toping form bottom.

perhaps, it is because I am foolish enough a subbby-dom/domme relationship should not have money as the core/center of the relationship.

I would suggest you make a list of your fantasies even the ones you do not want to try
and a list of your limits.

SexualChoc wrote:perhaps, it is because I am foolish enough a subbby-dom/domme relationship should not have money as the core/center of the relationship

It could work with or without, but keep in mind that giving them money is pretty submissive. And you aren't easily gonna find a domme, so most people should deal with it and pay up.
There seems to be much more demand for dommes than there is supply. So the best subs are the ones who will make it. I see it as the best subs are truly submissive, and will give up anything for their domme

I agree with SexualChoc. Describe your hottest fantasies and kinks to them. Let their creativity and experience do the rest. Having a safe-word automatically takes care of all 'limit' stuff.

I see nothing wrong with paying money to experience a fantasy. Finding a 'real-life' Domme is very difficult and maybe even impossible for most (given the imbalance of numbers).

I've been lurking on this post since you posted it and am dying for an update.

I've considered a pro domme experience myself and would love some inside knowledge on what to expect. Also very interested to hear how your experience turned out.

How did it go? Did you go already?

The advice is good. I did professional sessions for a number of years. My mother was also a prodom. If you find someone who is professional and also lifestyle I believe the experience is more authentic. The reason for this is that a woman who enjoys control in her personal life really adds to the experience. Its much easier to establish a dynamic.

I have personal slaves but I also provide online and phone training. I ask a lot of questions but I really want to know the top things that make a guys cock rock hard. I send out an extension questionnaire. I would rather not be instructed and told every little detail. I want to be engaged and for the person I am interacting with to enjoy pleasing me. In my opinion this makes it hotter for both of us.