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I havent had an orgasm for 8 weeks now.
Lately I've had an interesting experience on edging.
A couple of times I have accidently gotten too close to an orgasm.
I get close to an orgasm, and then stop as usual. but the sensation keeps building up (say because of some hot scene, have to close my eyes after a while), and then it's a mental game. Even after 20 seconds after all contact has stopped, a struggle is still going on. The most intense experience happened a couple of weeks ago. I won, but immediately after it, for a minute or so I felt sick. Like that sick feeling you have when you have a fever, you have 0 energy or will to live. Not pleasant, not erotic.

Anyone experienced this?

Just wondering if you have had a fall and landed on your ass before this started happening?

I think everybody has had falls.

A high degree of stimulation for a long period of time is basically like having your body in a state of constant anxiety. It's quite stressful and when prolonged can result in dizziness and a general feeling of sickness (nausea, and so on). Your body thinks there is something wrong (i.e. you are poisoned, sick, etc) and responds accordingly. I'd say most likely this is what you are feeling. This become more likely as you get older and is also more likely if your family history indicates susceptibility to anxiety. Unfortunately if this is the reason for you the only things you can do are to reduce the length of 'play times', the stressfulness of playtime i.e. try to edge in a more relaxed way lying down and not being tensed up - still very pleasant, and/or you can take drugs such as diazepam, lorazepam as well (but doctors hate to prescribe these drugs because of their addictive nature so it's quite difficult to get a long-term prescription).

Ah, yes, I do have susceptibility to anxiety.

So prolonged periods of play are stressful? As in increasing cortisol and other bad hormones? I thought sexual activity was good?

So prolonged periods of play are stressful? As in increasing cortisol and other bad hormones? I thought sexual activity was good?

LOL. Well yes, when sexual stimulation goes through the natural cycle it's very healthy and actually reduces stress. I love edging and denying guys (just look at my teases) , but I've also learned that it can be hard on them. The excitement is fun and a great high, but it is also stressful. Literally keeping you in a heightened state of stress for an extended period of time is not what nature intended. You are 'hacking' nature to delay and keep the high for as long as possible. It is super fun, but yes, it can make you feel sick and so you may have to cut back. Sorry.

Human wrote:I think everybody has had falls.

Why I ask is because I had a fall back last year and then straight after it increased the intencicity of an orgasm and also gave me a feeling of having a second orgasm straight after even though I wasn't,
It would also physically drain me of energy
The intencity was increased so much that I had no control over legs shaking and other bodily involuntary movements