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Hello,

Just a random thought I had and figured I'd see how the community reacts.

In a hypothetical scenario where a person randomly approaches you, stranger or not, and opened up about their kinks to you. How would you feel? What would you do? What are the chances that you'd reciprocate?

I suppose it would depend on the manner of how they started talking about it. Also, how the person looked. Either way, I don't see how the situation could be any better than "sorta creepy".

freakygeak wrote:Hello,

Just a random thought I had and figured I'd see how the community reacts.

In a hypothetical scenario where a person randomly approaches you, stranger or not, and opened up about their kinks to you. How would you feel? What would you do? What are the chances that you'd reciprocate?

If it was someone I knew, then I think I would feel good that a friend could open up in that way to me. But if i was sitting on a train and some random suddenly started talking to me about their fetish for used tampons I think I may be slightly disturbed by it.

Online it's slightly different, especially in a community like this; it's an appropriate place to share these kind of things and to explore them.

It's all down to the time and the place. Would I share my kinks with a stranger, well I already have in here many times. Would I do so in the flesh, well that depends on the who and the where too.

this has happened to me.

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This happens to me ALL THE TIME.

Sometimes I feel like a kinky confessional.

In general it is because someone has never met a "real live kinky woman" before and just needs to know that they are not a monster or a freak because of their desires.

As a very vocal public figure of the bdsm community I draw a lot of first-time confessionals from strangers and just try to be patient, supportive and positive with them.

It would be very dependent on the situation.Is it a man or woman ? In the library at the mall at a fancy restaurant or where ? Are they seemingly "normal" or acting all drugged up ? How this all played out and especially who I was with or not would determine my discussing with them.