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Hey folks, I'd like to share a problem I've had, and see if anyone else has found the same thing...

So like a lot of people on here I'm quite into the tease and denial side of things, but personally my favourite bit is when, after potentially hurting and humiliating yourself, you get told "No, you can't cum today". The problem is that most T&D teases are series' - which are advertised going in as orgasm denial. That kind of lessens the impact of the "no", since you know it's coming (and you're not, heh).

I figure if other people have this problem too then I've come up with something of a solution if enough people feel this way: If we have a few lists on the forums of similar teases - so each tease involves the same kinds of kinks and requires similar toys within each list, stated at the top - most of which result in denial, but a small number allow orgasm then they could be done at a set rate. Say, one is done per day, picked at random from a given list, then there'd be complete mystery about how long the denial would last and a lot more impact upon being told that it isn't that day.

So that's what I've come up with, I hope it makes sense to other people, outside of my head... Would anyone else be interested?

You mean something like Ashton's tease: http://www.orgasmdenial.com/askashton ?

I'm working on a site based on a similar idea (in short: whether and how you can cum is decided randomly), should be ready in a week or two...

You're looking for "chance to cum" teases

That askAshton link seems pretty awesome, cheers crazy! I look forward to that other site you mentioned too!

The problem I find with the "chance to cum" teases is that they either have a rare "Wait X days, then it's fine" which has no real build up or a "Do this again, pick a different number next time" which necessitates doing the same actions again, which loses some of the thrill/surprise.

Try Sibling Rivalry or Giving up control by Decker

my favourite aspect in tease and denial is the uncertainty. At the same time i also like a nice "build up". My favourite teases or games on milovana combine these two things and keep the player guessing every second from start to finish. It's no wonder i tried to create similar experiences with my own teases (for example the challenge or virtual sex) for TeaseMe or GuideMe. In fact... "Hearts Club" for GuideMe has a very similar and simple approach as Ashton's tease. I still experiment with different ideas to create a large multiday tease which feels different but also unique and fresh every day you start it and keeps the player guessing every second. I mostly fail because of my bad english and time constraints. But the tools are all there thx to philos work for GuideMe. And there are many good teases on milovana to try.