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You should go with with what you feel is right for you and your sub.

Tennisbuff

Thank you

tennisbuff wrote:You should go with with what you feel is right for you and your sub.

Tennisbuff

Agree

I do think it is fun to torment a sub with various ideas
but as a dom
YOU should be the one to decide.

Kindness does wonders.

YOU should be the one to decide.

True. But a good Dom thinks more about the experience of the submissive. That's my view, at least. That's why sometimes you do something to the benefit of the sub even if it goes against your wanting. You never show it though. It's always your decision, sub should know it. What he/she shouldn't know, is when you take pity on them or go easy on them or make decisions against your views to make SUB's experience.