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Scary or turn on?

It turns me on for sure.

Turns me way on.

It takes a DEEP level of submission for me to handle face slapping. Normally it just takes me out of it.

slapping the face is a serious sign of disrespect in many cultures.

as you can see even those who like pain tend to not like it, not just because of the pain
but because or the total humiliation of that act.

it was often used as a challenge for a duel.

Offense and satisfaction
The traditional situation that led to a duel often happened after the offense. Whether real or imagined, one party would demand satisfaction from the offender. ... herefore, anyone being slapped with a glove was, like a knight, considered obliged to accept the challenge or be dishonoured.

source:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duel
so not responding to a slap is a great dishonor.

Thank you Choc. I personally haven't been able to do anything sexual with anyone... well.. at least not in real life, that is. While that may be true, I know, without a doubt, if I were to be slapped in the face at any point during a session, I'd either become extremely angry and defiant, or so intensely depressed that I wouldn't be able to continue. I have some deep emotional scars involving slapping and would rather not get into them...



Anyway..... Next?

turns me OFF

hankbelly wrote:It takes a DEEP level of submission for me to handle face slapping. Normally it just takes me out of it.

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I'm pretty sure nothing could take me out of it, but I suppose it is probable that i would try to escape if i thought my life were at risk.

I understand past emotional trauma, but how does the empty glove slap in a duel or vanilla cultures offense at face slapping have anything to do with a submissive or slave being put in their place by a clearly superior woman?

raevenous wrote:
I understand past emotional trauma, but how does the empty glove slap in a duel or vanilla cultures offense at face slapping have anything to do with a submissive or slave being put in their place by a clearly superior woman?

Everyone has triggers that move them into sub space and help them relinquish control. It could be a fetish or an act of humiliation, seduction or intense degradation. The list is so very long. I get a lot of request for face slapping, spitting, cbt etc. It's not the act per se but what it invokes.

Most men, day to day, have many responsibilities and are expected to bite the world in the ass. It's hard for many to just let go and lose control. They are lucky if they can figure out how to maneuver their sexual fetishes and fantasies to help them dive into submissive space. It can be incredibility freeing for someone who is into it.

It catches me off guard and brings about levels of fear i think, but that simply makes me want it more and i have always deserved it and it certainly got me focused back on my position the few times she did it.

raevenous wrote:It catches me off guard and brings about levels of fear i think, but that simply makes me want it more and i have always deserved it and it certainly got me focused back on my position the few times she did it.

Fear can be sexually exciting for some people. When sex enters your head it's a whole other level of play. How you harness and channel it is very important.

Generally I think it would be a turn off. If it were something that was well explained before hand I might find it erotic. For example: I'm on the edge and told "You can cum if you agree to let me slap you." I could probably handle it then. But just in the normal course of things (although often it's not very normal ) I would probably take umbrage with it.

A slap to my balls, however..... That turns me on!

Am I weird?

Very much a turn on. I'm imagining being corrected for a job not so well done, maybe in front of (or within earshot) of a third party. Wow. Very hot.

It turns me on... but be careful with face slapping. I know someone that had something within their eyeball detach that needed surgery to correct because his mistress slapped him too hard.

AliceInBondageLand wrote:It turns me on... but be careful with face slapping. I know someone that had something within their eyeball detach that needed surgery to correct because his mistress slapped him too hard.

YOUCH!